Indecision Of The Heart!!

missjulie | 12:26 Mon 12th Jan 2015 | Body & Soul

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I met a man over Facebook and we have been messaging for several months and are due to meet tomorrow for the first time. There is no question that sex would be expected due to the explicit nature of our texts and messages.

I am already in a relationship and quite obviously seeking a thrill and confirmation of my attractiveness, being a very vain and insecure type of person.

But I am absolutely petrified. The duplicity is causing me massive stress, as well as the all-encompassing fear that this man will see me and be dreadfully disappointed that I don't look as good as my photos.

I don't know what to do. This would most definitely be a one-off for me but my confidence is at an all-time low and the rejection would be crushing.

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missjulie: If it isn't about sex then don't allow the sex to happen. You clearly already know that he is interested in having sex with you. Don't allow yourself to drop so low. I was bullied to death at school as well and people didn't think I was attractive - probably because I'm not (see, still the self doubt). Do you know how you will feel if you have sex with him?...

14:25 Mon 12th Jan 2015

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