Are you a Jealous person?

[TWR]

Are you?

[ummmm]

Lol Sqad...

[Sqad]

ummmm ;-)....thanks.

[starone]

Good answer sqad. I always felt like that about my husband. How can you love someone deeply without feeling jealous. I think it might be a sign of insecurity though if I am truthful.

[Sqad]

woofgang

<<<<<Jealous no, possessive and protective...ooooh yes<<<<<

I find you answer confuses me. If you are "possessive"as you say you are and at a party say, your husband is paying "attention" to another women........are you saying that you wouldn´t be jealous?

[Sqad]

Starbuck....spot on....it is a sign of insecurity and most extroverts are basically insecure, despite their bluff and bravado.

[ummmm]

Could be possessive in the 'hurt my family and I'll hurt you' type of way...

[carlton23]

I KNOW my wife has always, and will always love only me, and so I never have any reason to be jealous when she was chatted-up by other blokes,....and many tried.

[mollykins]

If someone's got something that I think I should have got, but they were chosen/ won it, then I sometimes am (If i don't like them anyway.)

[Sqad]

Carlton

<<<KNOW my wife has always, and will always love only me, and so I never have any reason to be jealous <<<

You sometimes are jealous WITHOUT having reason to be.

[Sqad]

molly....could that example be "envy" and not "jealousy?"

[ummmm]

Or just plain old disappointment.

Jealousy is a destructive emotion...

[Sqad]

ummmm....that´s what cazz said earlier on in this thread.

[woofgang]

Yup, my family is sacrosanct...touch them and you will regret it.

[ummmm]

And I also said..

Unless that makes you really unhappy and angry...and other negative emotions.

[Sqad]

woofgang is that a "yes" to being jealous?

[starone]

Carlton - how can you be so positive. Anything is possible and unless you are chained together night and day you cannot know. Human beings are by nature fickle although I admit some are more fickle than others. I know my husband loved me but it didn't stop me being jealous. It is awful though and can sometimes be like self-torture.

[mollykins]

Something like that squad . . .

[woofgang]

well by me its a no. I view jealousy as a negative emotion which is painful if you feel it and destructive to any relationship. Possessiveness by me is more proactive and positive....the only pain it causes is to anyone who lays a finger on my family.