Am I Wrong For Not Letting My Family Change My Son's Diaper?

trishyiepie | 02:48 Tue 22nd Jun 2021 | Family & Relationships

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My son is 2 months old and I have trouble letting others see my sons private area and I do not feel comfortable with other people changing my son alone, however, I have been called selfish and entitled for not letting other people care for my son even though my family plays with him, hugs him, kisses him, holds him, feeds him, etc. I just don't want anyone to change him.

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He is your baby - you can decide what you allow other people to do. If you don't want other people changing your baby's nappy, that is your decision and no one has the right to call you "selfish". If you feel uncomfortable with other people seeing your son naked, then you are right to prevent that from happening.

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Bobbisox1

I’m so sorry reading this trishy, have you had any form of counselling to help you? That might help you with your own baby

pastafreak

That's ^^^^ what I was going to suggest. Difficult as it may be, it will help you to cope, and be best for your little one both now and in the future.

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Bobbisox1
Yes, I did counseling at the age of 23. Although I'm still working on it.

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pastafreak
Yeah, I guess it would help out a lot

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