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think i must have some kinda mental defection i cannot for the life of me understand emphasis on looks, mama i agree with you an inner beauty is very attractive & is always something i look for in a mate & am luckyto have at the minute, but what i mean is why are people always in a rush to talk about both their own appearance & other peoples, to me it is irrelevant, of course dressing well, personal hygiene are important but the emphasis on oh i'm this slim, oh i have pretty eyes, we can see that why keep talking about it, it smacks of insecurity to me, i'm obese & aethestically challenged & i don't care one bit what worries me is other people : 0