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What is wrong i did not deserve this?

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ALLENT | 02:54 Tue 31st May 2011 | Family & Relationships
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This woman at work had a joke with me and i had a joke back (about my age)
And i apologized twice to her and she said fine.
But on the way home a car pulled up and this guy got out and attacked me and the woman was with him he said to me never talk to her again.
But i ignored him and kept saying hi to her. and she kept blanking me.
I do not know why she said its fine to me when i said sorry then got me attacked.
And she said to the guy i (as in me) am not worth it.
The joke was me being 26 and i said she is only 23 (it was not anything nasty or rude)
On my last day she phoned down and was laughing at me.
She may feel guilty for causing trouble or she just hates me most likely.
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Allen, I would just move on. This is (IMO) one of the problems with facebook, everything is too public. You have left that workplace, just forget it and don't make contact with her.
Once again - have you informed the police? People can't go round duffing each other up for no reason.
08:03 Sun 05th Jun 2011
Id stay clear....
If you're been attacked, report it to the police. Whether she hates you or not is irrelevant.
Do not take this the wrong way! what nationality are you? & did you put the question about age the right way?
don't understand why she would get annoyed with that don't make sense stay away from her don't waste your time with her
Ignore her.

If she repeats unprofessional conduct/harassment at work report her to your line manager and ask that it be officially noted.

If you are threatened again by her or bf call the police.
what exactly was this 'joke'? it sounds like you are not being totally honest here...
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The joke was she said to me you look about 24 and i said really you look about 29 then i said i was only joking and then i apologized twice and she said thats fine then i was walking home and got attacked.
This sounds an extraordinary story, I hope you reported it to the police. This sounds like something blown out of all proportion.

What do you mean, your last day? have you left that company now? In which case you are not likely to see her again, forget her - but you still need to tell the police that you were assaulted in an attack by a stranger.
If that's all that passed between you, you're right, you didn't deserve this.

It's up to you what you decide to do, but I would certainly give her a wide berth.
This is a duplicate post, answers on the other one too. Two posts with the same title get very confusing. http://www.theanswerb.../Question1023244.html
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I honestely left the company because i was scared of getting attacked again on the way home.
my town is a small town if i see her in a bar she will follow me with a guy and just watch me she if she is in a group with men there.
What Nationality are these people Allent?
it sounds like she may have let it go, but just happened to tell her fella and its him that has got angry and wanted revenge - probably felt you had insulted the honour of 'his woman'

either way i would report it asap an see if you can get any cctv of the footage
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It was only a few bruises i tried to make friends on f/b with her but she turned it down.
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get a gun and shoot the beatch
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I put on a mate f/b wall that i got treated like a idiot at my last work and the mate said i am not bothered forget it you do not work here anymore and the woman said (who b/f attacked me ticked the like box)
Does that mean she wants to make up
Allen, I would just move on. This is (IMO) one of the problems with facebook, everything is too public. You have left that workplace, just forget it and don't make contact with her.
Once again - have you informed the police? People can't go round duffing each other up for no reason.
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I have been to the police.

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