Sister trouble

[chattykathy]

I would love to know what other people think of this situation. A week last Friday me, my fella, my sister and her husband all went to the Olympics and had a brilliant time at the Excel watching the boxing. While we were there we all kept saying it was such a shame we couldn't get into the Olympic park - I had spent hours and hours looking for tickets with no avail. I had managed to get the tickets over a year ago, booked all the travel and arranged accommodation with a friend who lives nearby, all my sister and brother in law had to do was turn up. However today sister phones and says BiL is trying to get Paralympic tickets and I thought great then she delivers the blow - they've invited my ex (who they are still friendly with) effectively blowing me out!! I just can't believe it! When I expressed my feelings she got all shirty and told me she didn't like being 'piggy i the middle' between me and the ex and put the phone down on me! I simply can't believe it, after me arranging everything, they wouldn't have gone to the Olympics without me and now they've sh*t on me. Am I over reacting? My sister is very fiery and holds a grudge so I'm worried if I say too much she'll never talk to me again! I'm so bloody angry though!!! Any thoughts or advice?

[divegirl]

No advice Just wanted to say. They just released more stadium tickets. May be worth a look.

Lisa x

[chattykathy]

Thanks everyone, it's been great to get it all off my chest!!

[chattykathy]

Thanks Lisa, I keep looking and trying x

[AliceTickband]

through all of this you have to remember that you can only control what you do, you cannot control others. If you voice your feelings, which I probably would in the same circumstances, and she holds a grudge, that is her problem not yours.