I rarely cry. although having said that, I will sob my heart out to a soppy film. I normally have a really good blub at least once a year!!!

What's getting you down so much whitebear?

Sammy Snake
Fri 26/09/08
00:10

Crikey, I feel bad for my filppant answer now.

Nothing is EVER worth 'ending it' over, things can always be sorted.

Whatever you are going through that is making you cry, I feel sure that you can get through it in one piece and come out the other side feeling much better.

It may not feel like that right now but trust me, you will get there eventually.

wonkon-wonk
Fri 26/09/08
00:11

whitebear don't talk like that you are a young woman with everything in front of you.

pinktwink
Fri 26/09/08
00:13

dont know if you know whitebear but there was a question on here the othe rnight about someone who was thinking of suicide it got a very mixed response some encouraging him to do it so be careful you don't want to be hurt more.

it's good to cry it clears the system of cobwebs sort of speak so you don't hold on to or bury negative feelings

have you tried watching comedys or taking up a new interest so life is a bit more light hearted for you

stay strong life is for living

wonkon-wonk
Fri 26/09/08
00:23

pink that bloke yesterday was IMO a faker taking the p*ss

whitebear tell us why you are down please

Petal~flower
Fri 26/09/08
00:23

aw Whitebear, whats up?

A problem shared and all that xx

WhiteBear
Fri 26/09/08
00:24

Question Author

thanks for your thoughts guys.

im probably having one of those moments again. but i have it all the time. there are days i can cope with it, but there other days i just cant hack it anymore.

i think about something... then i cry... then after the little cry... i think... what was that for??.... then 10mins later i start all over again......

i have found a new hobby but it involves alot of travelling and money. :'(

but i will stay strong. ppl at work r beginning to sense it, been quiet all week, they keep asking me if im ok. the more theyre ask me that... i know im just going to burst out crying infront of them and i dont want to do that.

i cry easily :( must be to do with getting hurt all the time aswell. x

Barmaid
Fri 26/09/08
00:26

Whitebear - sorry to hear you are so down. Have you considered visiting your GP or looking for a counsellor to help - someone like a life coach or something? I am inexperienced in these matters, but crying at the drop of the hat like that can't be doing you any good, can it now?

pinktwink
Fri 26/09/08
00:28

hey whitebear you say there are times things are good what is you are doing then that makes you feel more able to manage. and you know it might be a good idea during the times you think of sad things that make you cry to also give yourself a break from the sadness and think of the positive things in your life your successess achievements and the things you enjoy

Petal~flower
Fri 26/09/08
00:34

I have days like that WhiteBear.....

If you want to talk it out with us, we are here OK xx

WhiteBear
Fri 26/09/08
00:38

Question Author

Barmaid: ive had counciling b4 about 12 yrs ago i never liked it.

imjust unhappy about life.

there r times i can just block it by pretending to b happy n being silly/smiley when im arroundppl, so not many ppl knows that im unhappy.

pink: what makes me feel good is cheering people up. and being there for them. i can acheive that well.
anything else such as doing something for meself..... Zilch.

WhiteBear
Fri 26/09/08
00:41

Question Author

Aww thanks petal xxx

i just dont wanna talk about it again, its been discussed b4. i think regulars r probably sick of readingabout it again x
i was just wondering if there is anyone whos abit like me who cries everyday. i know its not normal. i can b fine somedays x

Barmaid
Fri 26/09/08
00:41

Ahhhh so you wear a mask to hide your true sadness. I think we all do that to some extent.

I was once told "accept the things you cannot change and change the things you cannot accept"! The tricky thing is knowing the difference.

pinktwink
Fri 26/09/08
00:43

would you feel so good if you were to cheer yourself up. the first rule of caring for or doing things for others is to care for yourself first as u are worth it

Petal~flower
Fri 26/09/08
00:45

WhiteBear.................I have been on this site for a long time, and cant say I can ever remember you posting anything sad.

But its OK if you do, believe me, I am an old hand at it!

But if you are crying everyday, then it does sound like you are depressed, I know anti deps do not get to the root of the problem, but they can give you a bit of a lift when you are feeling down.

wonkon-wonk
Fri 26/09/08
00:45

goodnight whitebear
get them thought out of your head and always make the most out of life!

catch you tomorrow
goodnight all

WhiteBear
Fri 26/09/08
00:46

Question Author

that sounds confusing :)

bur
t isnt that just contridicting urself? :)

its like..... 'its nice, but i dont like it' - my cousin used to use it alot x :)
x

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