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jammiedodger | 15:37 Thu 14th Jun 2007 | Body & Soul
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Hello all, I need advice to kind of get one over on someone with words.... im not too good with arguements etc and what to say!

Story is....... about this time last year I was single and fed up so decided to get in touch with my ex, not knowing he had a new gf. I kind of over reacted as he didnt wanna know and kept emailing him and dumped the stuff he had bought me outside his house. His gf got involved and started texting me etc.

I have a new boyfirend and haven't contacted him since then until a few weeks ago where I sent him a msg on a website saying 'hi how r u?' and then again after I saw him driving, none of which he replied to.

Thing is his gf has started sending me msgs like 'leave us alone' etc and 'stop pestering us' also ont he website. Personally, 2 msgs to me doesnt constitute pestering, just asking how someone is, no innuendos, no nothing!

I dont care about my ex anymore but get annoyed when his gf thinks she can send me these msgs. I am happy with my new bloke, very happy infact, but stuff like this just gets me all wound up!

I want to show her I dont care about them so does anyone have any ideas on what I cud write or how to handle the situation???

P.S. Please dont just tell me to leave it and not reply to the msgs, I want to annoy her, the vile B****!!!
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And Nic Yes I fancy a married man but nothing is going on, I haven't stolen him and don't intend to! I have many other men in my life that I can pass the time of day with! The funny thing is.... I only spend time on AB when I am at work, and late in the evening when I go to bed but everytime I see the same old faces on here and I get told I am sad! How can this be! Lmao!

Pa__ul... I would definately visit that shop.. Jammie.. we should take a trip down there together... sounds like it has something for both of us! Lol
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The same old faces dont post drivel about their lives, thats the difference. Anyway I'm off to enjoy my day. You just sit tight in that chair and keep those posts rolling lol

Bye.
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Ruby, maybe we should use this website instead??
http://www.revengeguy.co.uk/store/
Btw, the insults all came from Ruby if you readback. happy reading....
BTW

Bye in my book is usually a final phrase.
has the clan increased.
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we all know that.
Rubyrose, you're so shallow! You only came on here to get the 100th post ;-) lol

Why does anyone need to insult anyone? Cant there be a reasonable debate without it?
Just say...

'Oh sorry for messaging him, I didn't realise you two were still together. I actually admire you two for being strong and sticking together knowing what happened between me and him the other night though.'
jd and rubyrose hate to say this but you are exhibiting the type of attitude that was common in 14/15 year old girls in the school where I used to work. You do not seem to want to listen to the many voices of reason on here. My own advice would be 1)rubyrose. Are you trying to create one of those faces, that reflect evil and vindictiveness, you posted a question about last night . If not, perhaps you are unaware how spiteful and vitriolic some of your posts appear. 2) jd Focus on the positives in life, for instance running for charity which you posted about yesterday.Stop creating negatives for yourself.
I can't see what this new gf of your ex hasdone which is so wrong.
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iif you read all of the replies, including my own, u will c i sed i have taken upon the advice of other given on here as to my course of action.
Bloody hell, you nip out to post a parcel and pick up a rabbits head and.....

Anyhoo, anyone know whether I need to keep this thing in the fridge as I have no idea where I am supposed to post it and the jiffy bag is leaking. Is it raw meat on top of cooked or the other way round?

Oh bu**er it's dripping on the floor now - got to go and get a mop - damn you and your rabbits head ruby
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Joe, that was quite final, just wanted to point out to you to think before you take sides.

And Ruby may have the loveliest boobs (lol) according to you, but I just kicked her backside on tihs thread.

Bye. This time I mean it.
LMFAO! Annie..... So sorry! Can you store it in a freezer or s chill box and I will come and get it in the morning? I will post it tomorrow. Then she'll recieve it Saturday morning... that's a nice Saturday morning treat eh... ;o)
How much do I owe you anyway?

Feist - *baffled face* how did you 'kick my @rse' may I ask? You really do make me confused! Can I ask......... Are you and Leg-end the same person? (I'm not accusing... Just checking... Coz I'm getting a vibe and it's not coming from the special drawer under my bed)
is this still going, bl00dy hell/.

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