Women and sex drive...

[kryptic]

This question is primarily addressed to women but can equally apply to men.
If you lost your sex drive, how do you deal with it in terms of your relationship? (Obviously, if you are singe then there wont be much of a problem)
Would you simply sweep it under the carpet and pretend that everything is still OK in your relationship or would you seek some sort of medical advice?
If your partner still desired you (sexually) but you were more than happy just to carry on as though everything were ok, would you expect your relationship to survive?
If you lost your sex drive, do you think that your partner would feel rejected and would you really care anyway?...

[Jemisa]

Truth hurts doesn't it kryptic?

[Old_Geezer]

Jem may not has expressed sympathy, but the issue of whether the problem is with the other partner ought not be dismissed.

But I still think if you talk you may find a cause for the lowered desire. If it is something like depression then maybe you couldn't find the ability to care you've lost the urge, as you suggest.

[sara3]

Jemisa, do you actually know kryptic? your posts are a bit.. off.

[kryptic]

// Truth hurts doesn't it kryptic? //
No, not really. Next...

[tamborine]

Tell your OH how the lack of sex physically affects you, and find time for the you both to be alone.

A woman can arouse herself if she knows how & wants to.

[karenmac60]

Jem, mr mac has medical problems - I presume that is why we have virtually no sex life. But maybe it's because I smell or I'm ugly. You think someone in my position doesn't question these things and becomes obsessed that there is something wrong with them? Your comments are extremely cruel and hurtful - not only to kryptic, but to anyone else who may be in a similar position.

[Mick-Talbot]

could you address my question , Krptic?

[Mick-Talbot]

pinkilady Jem!! That is so harsh. Poor Kryptic :-(

My OH has a *really* low sex drive... it's a pain in the arse


jesus feckin christ.................. surely i'm not the only one lolling...?

[sara3]

errrrr... me too!

[RATTER15]

Jemisa, you obviously know something about Kryptic to be so unkind or is that just your way?

[tamborine]

the book, Karma sutra can be a turn on :)

[sara3]

lol, have they updated the illustrations?

[karenmac60]

Poor choice of words Pinki, but I almost said mr mac's problems 'were a bugger' ;)