Making it up to someone

[LauraLou]

It's my birthday tomorrow and I accidentally started a row with my other half which sounded like I only care about how much he spent on me isn't what I meant. I don't want to ruin our day together tomorrow or make things worse. I text him an apology ashe's gone out for a couple of hours but no reply. How do fix it??

[Danni79]

If he didn't reply he is obviously still dwelling, don't keep texting as it will probably bug him more as long as your text was from the heart and you meant it you will just have to wait till he is ready to come to you. When he does be sure not to let it get all heated again just calmly explain that its not what you meant and all that really matters is that you spend a lovely day together with no arguments, just be sincere and calm!! good luck, i am sure it'll be fine x x x

[scoobysoo]

Tell him you are sorry, and that it all came out wrong and the best birthday present is to be with him. If it's not what you meant then all you can do is tell the truth and apologise sincerely...good luck

[LauraLou]

Thanks Danni, trying rally hard not to text again! X

[stevie-p]

You started a row that sounded like you only cared about how much he spent on "you"..now you dont want to spoil "your" birthday,(Not trying to be offensive)but sounds like its all "you"...how about buying "him" a present on your birthday,to show you care,im no expert but maybe it might work....good luck.

[theren_911]

Stevie - that's a bit harsh! It's HER day! For HER to feel special. If it's any consolation - I found out that my Fiance� got most of my christmas presents on ebay for less than �2 each! But I got what I wanted and she didn't have to break the bank. It really is the thought that counts.

Just sexually abuse him when you see him and forget about it, I'm sure he will if you do a good job :D

Hope you have a great birthday and sort things out with the feller!

[shazbang]

Happy Birthday Laura whatever happens!

[stevie-p]

no offence meant at all.

[LauraLou]

Hey Guys

Thanks for your messages! It turned out ok, but nearly onto another row now! Having a good day though. I take your comments on board Steve, thought they were a bit harsh but looking at what I wrote I could have put it better.

X

[stevie-p]

Glad it turned out ok...pleased for you...and dont worry,it wont be the last row you ever have lol