I've just been perusing some of my former posts, as you do. And I've just realised why you took (slight) umbrage at my description of you as 'poor thing.... came, went, came back unnoticed').
No wonder you were confused etc - I got you completely mixed up with Grasscarp - who did indeed join, felt ignored, left in an unnoticed flounce, came back again unnoticed...!!! It is grasscarp who I said I would never ignore again and would look out for. It is grasscarp who I should have said, jokingly, "poor thing...." Derr!
(His/her avatar is of a.... guess... carp. And yours is a.... errr... butterfly. Very similar as I'm sure you understand). Just call me easily confused.com. pmsl x
If he sees that horrible avatar he will change his mind. Please go back to that beautiful one. Sqad will be hiding away on the weekend if you are not careful.