Sent home from work

[jb190281]

Well Ive been sent home from work and told to relax, easier said than done was pathetic daytime tv. My mind is in overdrive, thinking about things which upset me, so I REALLY do need to chin up, and relax also!
I know I can rely on you lot to cheer me up....

[ummmm]

Are you poorly?

[jb190281]

in a way ummmm, its all related to what i spoke to you about the other day, only its all got a bit worse (sob sob)

[alavahalf]

..or have you been naughty..?

[jb190281]

sorry ummmm, i got confused, i dont think it was you i was talking to the other day!

and no, i havent been naughty, almost wish i had, certainly be more interesting

[ummmm]

I was a bit confused then :-)

You could watch Maury....It always makes me laugh...

[pericat]

Ok - couch - a good film - some nice sweets and a fleece !

[another-view]

Perhaps if we knew what you were sent home for doing (or not doing), we could advise.

[jb190281]

Ive not been sent home for doing something wrong or not doing enough! Ive been sent home for health reasons and for my own well-being

[ummmm]

You're obviously upset about something. At least they care....

[dothawkes31]

Have you made an appointment with your GP? If nothing Physically wrong seems apparent you would be as well just speaking to a doctor and explaining how things are.

[zzxxee]

cheer up jb
smile yep a day sofa surfing is what you need xx

[jb190281]

well im a bit more relaxed than i was 2 hours ago, so im ready to share...

im 7 weeks pregnant, but i started bleeding at the weekend. after many conversations with doc, midwife and nhs direct, they think im miscarrying. so all i can do at the moment is wait for an early scan and keep my fingers crossed. i made the mistake of going in to work and breaking down in tears with my boss!

[ummmm]

When's your scan?

[jb190281]

im still waiting for her to phone me back. they scan in the mornings and phone patients in the afternoon apparently so should hear something soon

[zzxxee]

relax as much as possible my sweet i hope it all goes well for you is it your first pregnacy???? xxx

[Kassee]

same thing happened to me - had fairly heavy period for quite a while - then went for scan and very surprised to find I was still pregnant.

Dont know how it happened = I was surprised - he is 22 now and at Uni !!

So take it easy, try not to worry - dont lift anything - if its meant to be - you'll be OK - Good Luck xx

[jb190281]

it is my first yes. weve been trying for nearly 18 months so im taking comfort from the knowledge that i can conceive.

[milliezoe]

God I feel for you my wife miscarried three times the look on her face when I came home from work after her scan will live with me forever. But I now have a wonderful son who is a treasure so do not despair God Bless I am now weeping !!!

[funnygirl]

Hi jb

The same thing happened to me many years ago. I was at work, started spotting, I was actually sent to hospital and they confined to bed rest for one month.
I went on to have a healthy son.
I really hope you're not miscarrying and get plenty of rest literally.

[jb190281]

thank you all.
i just want the scan NOW so i can know either way, all this thinking isnt helping me! but thank you all again for your words