I didn't say you were old, I said my mother in law is. But you seem proud that he would choose you over any other woman! That is not healthy. Would you have been happy for your husband to choose his mother over you? She is the mother of your grandchild, show her a little respect and stop meddling in your son's relationship. If he is old enough to have a child of his own, he is old enough to make his own choice of partner. You sound very stubborn and you will not rest till not only your son agrees that his fiancee is a waste of space, but until everyone on here does too. And lets face it, this has very little to do with who does or doesn't get an invite to the wedding, you just don't like her and would rather keep your big boy all to yourself.