You've Got To Laugh Haven't You?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Poor you steve100100. I agree totally with the other answers & you should move on. Long distance relationships are not easy, even when both parties are wanting to continue.
I think you know deep down that she is trying to cut ties gently which I guess is her way of coping with the guilt. Focus your emotions on getting back on your feet & trying to occupy your time with something else, new hobby, club, friends etc. Try not to focus on the good points as you will pine forever at that rate. But do give yourself some time to recover.
Good luck. x
It might prolong the agony if you remain friends, as you may hope that you get back together one day and you'll be living in hope without moving on with your life. I think its very healthy that you are confronting your emotions head on and admitting how you feel. I'm sure some people would kid themselves into remaining friends on the basis of friendship when really, love is at the core. "Let's be friends" can either mean, "I'm letting you down gently" as Hygrove mentioned or they genuinely want the friendship. But can a friendship be healthy when one person is in love with the other? Sounds like a recipe for heartache. Best wishes with whatever you decide x
I've never had this work, even with my last relationship I had to telll her I could not see her ever again. It's a tough thing to do and obviously you would always be there for her if she really needed help. but that doesn't mean you are now an agony ucle for her emotional turmoil with any new relationships she has made a mess of.
Sometimes the best things that happen are those we don't plan for. Chance encounters are never accidents. Fate brings certain people together for specific reasons.
Get out there and find someone you are happy with!