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having him for a few days/ nights a week is different than having him full time as i said before more clothes more toys less room, if you think about it its like staying at a hotel, its ok for a week or two but could you move your whole world there forever, i doubt it,, maybe you should be thinking about going to the council and hounding them all day every day until they finallyly give in and give you a bigger house, that would be a start wouldnt it, im sure your partner is living on her hormones at the minute and thinks that this is the wrong time just as she is about to give birth, have you talked to the boys mother to find out why she is so stressy with your son, maybe something could be worked out, if this goes ahead are you going to have full custody of your son and what arrangements will the mother have for seeing him if he does move?