I have been desperately waiting for an answer to something really important for the past month and they are due to decide next week. I cannot do anything further to influence their decision or the outcome; it is now totally out of my hands, apart from wishing & keeping fingers crossed etc. I read that one user on this site said they believed that if they said their wish 15 times a day it would come true, another said they focus and concentrate on the outcome, almost willing it to happen
I am interested in what you do, or would be willing to try, to make things happen for you, even if it is way out there!
hey i can feel eaxactly how u feel, i been waiting for a decision since i sent out my application a month ago, and i been worrying lots, and getting more and more anxious everyday, even very emotional and couldnt eat properly, but thank god, yesterday, i got my document back, and yeah, i got good news, so i feel released now finally.
My mate is really into meditation and new agey stuff. He believes that you shouldnt wish something to happen but visualise it happening. You have to be serious about it and proper think about it quite a lot but he reckons the mind is more powerful than we know. I think thats too much like hard work, I cant concentrate on anything for long, so I would just keep my fingers crossed and keep on hoping for the best :D