you're the fantasist ummmm, you must live in fairy tale some of your posts are so naive. I'm no hard man I just stick up for myself early so everyone knows their position. I've hardly ever had to resort to violence but with the best will in the world it can happen. You just seem to think all the kids in school have your fluffy bunny outlook, it ain't like that, not now not ever, kids have always been brutal and cruel with those they see as different. wake up.