hi there 10clarionst firsty can i say how sorry i am to hear your news about your friend,she must have found it really hard to tell you,poor thing i feel for her,to have had it once then for it to come back again,i know how your feeling my dad was the same got it at 45,but were not talking about that,all i can say is be there for her as much as you can ,show her she means alot to you,she will need you when she goes for treatment a shoulder to cry on,keep your chin up and she will be fine,ive got my fingers crossed for her,you never know things may be ok,you take care as well xx