so i go to this art and design college and since first day seniors are doing ragging of us as we are in our foundation year so...

[uzair_ahmed_1994]

i seem worried and nervous and scared too according to teachers and senior students
so what would they all think about me?
and what should i do if i feel nervous around so many girls who try to play a prank on me?

[Ankou]

1. they probably think you are a right game for a larf
2. twang their bra straps or waggle your tonker at em

[rowanwitch]

Just try to act as if it doesn't bother you you will be a senior soon enough then it will be your turn AND IGNORE ANKOU

[jomifl]

Teenage girls like playing mind games, you will just have to learn to deal with it.

[pdust]

you could always skive off til its over :)

[uzair_ahmed_1994]

but they all laugh at me like as if i look under-age for university
and sometimes i feel like i am going to cry
i try to act like dante from devil may cry(series) but my face makes them think i am a junior!
what do i need to do?

[Baldric]

Man-up.
Grow some.
Stop behaving like a 12 year old!

[rowanwitch]

stop worrying...so you look young... best way to shut them up is to do really well they will soon take you seriousy then

[maggiebee]

You're at college to study so do just that. Get your head down and get on with the course work. Silly girls come and go but you'll survive.

[Zeuhl]

Imagine a point in the future - you are older and stronger but your life has not gone as it should because you flunked out of college. The reason you did that was because some young girls teased you.

Feels silly doesn't it. You wouldn't let them do that now would you?

Stop behaving like a little victim.
Be the older stronger you.
Be self sufficient - what these other students do is not important.
Go into a situation where you are the elder and stronger (do you have young cousins or something?). Notice your 'state': what you see, what you hear, how you think and how you feel about yourself and those around you.
Take that 'state' into college with you.

[NOX]

Just relax, smile and dpn't get upset. Bullies feed on misery, if they haven't got it then they s0d off and leave you alone eventually, and whilst they6re preying on you they are leaving someone else alone, so look upon your problem as a public service. Smile- seriously, at worst people think you're happy- at best they think you're up to something;-)

[uzair_ahmed_1994]

@everyone you are all so kind thank you all from the bottom of my heart i am serious
:)
so i should always act like ezio auditore from assassin's creed 2 right?

[Ankou]

or walter mitty

[Zhukov]

...what would Michael Jackson do...? :0/

[jomifl]

If you are going to model yourself on a character then I recommend that you model yourself on a real person who is demonstrably successful in the long term and in the real world,not a 1 dimensional (OK 2 dimensional) character from a video game who is just a figment of computer geek's imagination.

[Andyvon]

I'm surprised the term 'bullying' hasn't been used!

Isn't this all part of growing up and moving into the adult world? This sort of thing happens throughout life, whether it's in the work place, clubs, amongst neighbours etc. You've got to learn to stand up for yourself Uzair and deal with people teasing you and playing games. If it's causing you problems at college now you are going to find things much harder as you go through life in the years to come.

[Booldawg]

its art school - noone cares.