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At Last It Has Been Said, But By A Woman Since It Would Never Been Accepted If It Had Been Said By A Man.

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anotheoldgit | 11:21 Thu 23rd Oct 2014 | ChatterBank
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She's a bit behind the times IMO, the TV shows quoted are years old,she should take a look at Modern Family. On Strictly the female dancers are continually praised about their bodies and how they use them. So far as adverts go, if people don't like the advert, they will ignore it or if they really dislike the advert, it will put them off buying the product.
I agree with Woof. She's used bad examples.
Totally disagree about Friends, the girls have just as many foibles and oddball characteristics as the men - but that's because it's a comedy show, it wouldn't be exactly funny if they were all perfect robots. In fact that can be said about all her examples, it's not real life.
There are several threads running through online discussions that suggest that misandry is, at least, present in the debate about feminism/ equality. I think it's mainly just a minority of rather loud voices, rather than anything particularly serious. I've never felt belittled because of my gender. I expect most men would say the same.
seems to be a common trend in advertising aimed at products/services specifically aimed at women. You either buy into it or you don't.
i've never felt belittled, i don't need a member of the weaker sex to stand up for me ...
This has been around for a long time. I remember my wife saying to somebody that I was a model husband and then went on to say " of course a model is a small replica of the real thing".
I think British women are becoming gradually more domineering. Many confuse Assertion with Aggression and feel they have to be 'laddish' before anyone will take much notice of them. What they fail to understand is that women have, for centuries, been getting their own way by using feminine rather than feminist ways. I've seem many examples of aggression and sexual harassment in the work place from women aimed at men. I'm convinced women make the most hideous bosses wavering from your 'best friend' to your 'worst enemy' depending on the time of month. Some men are quite lazy and quite willing to be bossed around for a quiet life. maybe some women think its payback time for years of being , in their opinion, regarded as second class citizens. I think its ugly to see a woman publicly belittle a man, or visa verso for that matter.
I think the writer is taking light-hearted comedies and female-lead-based drama series and reading far too much into them.

As advised, Friends is a particuarly bad example because - as is the norm with comedy - none of the characters are either 'rounded' or 'grounded' - the provide levels of wit that would ocur maybe once a week in real life, if you were lucky, not every twenty seconds from everyone who speaks, whic is how sit-coms work.

Similarly, the dramatic set-ups of series like Scott & Bailey are light-years away from anything remotely approaching real police situations, which may be realistic, but would make for terminally boring television.

You might as well say that people should keep well away from Jessica Fletcher in Murder She Wrote because week in week out, someone she knows dies violently. The reality would watching a little old lady pounding word processor for eight hours a day - accurate, but not exactly a ratings hit.

This piece is the opinion of someone who is inventing a premise and then twisting facts and perceptions to fit it.

To be ignored.
Since it's no longer acceptable to routinely portray women as air-headed nitwits, sex objects and impotent dolts that stand in the background screaming when there's any trouble, all of those roles now have to go to men.

It's that simple.
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/// Consequently, comedienne Jo Brand is able to make jokes about men that would never be deemed acceptable the other way around. For example: ‘What’s the way to a man’s heart? Straight through the chest with a kitchen knife. ///

Would this be acceptable the other way round?


No because we all know the way to a woman's heart is diamonds and furs
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On a more serious note it is much worse than first thought.

http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2008/aug/03/gender.healthandwellbeing
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Then perhaps it is catch up time according to some of these now banned ads?

http://www.boredpanda.com/vintage-ads/

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