confused - assault?

[samba82]

Im sorry, i dont know where to post this - as i dont even know if it has a category.

Without going in to detail, i am trying to write down all my past, as ive been requested to. But this is where i am confused. Its something that happened to me when i was 4.

When i was 4, another child touched me in places i did not want to be touched (i'm male and it was a he too) - even although i said no, he still continued.

Since he was also 4 or 5 i am confused to what it is. Is it sexual assault? i really don't know.

There were a few adults around too but i do not think they could see what was going on

thanks.

[lajohn]

get regressed by a hypnotists. that way you will remember and reveal your entire past. then we'll talk.

[B00]

Is it bu88ery sexual assault!!!

It was a naturally curious 4/5 year old trying to see what another 4/5 year old has, nothing more, nothing less.

I think there's something slightly disturbing about this being viewed as assault.

[lajohn]

Boo, i think this is a wind-up.

haven't you noticed all the controversial posts gets posted in CB and the posters never knows the appropriate forum?

[whiffey]

Yes, but samba82 is a bloody silly name for a wind-up !!

[legend758]

Best ignored .
Whiffffy shouldnt this be in family ?


I await yur outburst.

Slightly confused if you were 4 and cant remember and the adults there couldnt se.
then who told you about this ?
if you cant rememeber ?

lajohn is correct


windup

continue turning the key folks.

[samba82]

not a wind up, i genuinly wanted advice but thanks for ripping my post to shreads

[whiffey]

Two 4-year-olds?

Seriously, post it in Body and Soul.

[samba82]

i used the word assault simply because i didnt know what other words to post - since its caused a stir, i didnt want to put this but still - i have been asked by my psychologist to write sometthings down, and this was one of the experiances i did not kno whow to even write down let alone what to put and this has been the upsetting part of my life so far

[samba82]

BOO - "It was a naturally curious 4/5 year old trying to see what another 4/5 year old has, nothing more, nothing less. " i would agree if it only happened once - this didnt and its something ive never been able tot alk about since - i can only assume they were that age, at a young age, you think everybody are younger than they are, plus it is hazy as it was a long time ago

[bob57]

I think you put it down in writing alright it just needs a little bit more information on how you really feel about the situation and to talk about it