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EvianBaby | 07:45 Thu 18th Apr 2013 | Relationships & Dating
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Me AGAIN!

So, I had (another) first date on Tuesday. Went for a drink with a guy I'd been chatting to for a week or so. Got on really well and had a good laugh. When we left he said he'd like to meet up again and then we texted a bit later on. Said I seemed really lovely blah blah and would really like to see me again. I replied saying yeah me too, blah blah and that I was heading to bed. Not heard anything from him since then.

I do realise that was only the day before yesterday but frankly he was a total hotty and we had loads in common so I'm an eager beaver. But I don't want to be too eager do I.

So, should I wait and see if he gets in touch with me or do you reckon I should make the next move and if so, when?

It's at this point I feel I should remind you that I am in fact 29 years old and not 13 as this question most likely portrays me to be but I've kept this one to myself from friends & family cos I'm tired of having to tell them it's going nowhere again and again so I have to ask you lot. :)
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Text him.
wait another day, then txt him :)
He's probably protecting his pride and waiting for you to message him.
Don't die wondering ...
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When people! WHEN!!! ;)

Hey Dave, he's a biker. A real one. He races and everything! Can I get a whoop whoop! ;)
Text him.

I don't understand this waiting thing. It's only off putting if someone texts too much.
Text him today before he makes plans for Friday and Saturday night, I'm not very subtle :)
i told you..................tomorrow.
Whoop Whoop Whoop :-)
mmmm!........you want an answer from an expert?

If HE is keen he will text you.

Wait.........nothing worse than a woman you don't fancy texting you and putting you even further "off."
Don't listen to Sqad ;-)
If you only text him once it's not a problem, it's a problem if his phone melts because you're texting him every 2 or 3 minutes :)
He's out of date. ;-)

(Sqad!!!)
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Ah Sqad, I was hoping you'd respond. :)

To be honest I hate all this waiting crap too. It's stupid. But I don't want to look like one of those people Sqaddles is talking about.
Like Shar says just text once.

And remember, not everyone is attached to their phones. Mine went dead yesterday afternoon and I've just plugged it in.
Wait until 5pm.
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Anne, thanks. I think Shar is right though. I need to get in there before before he makes too many weekend plans ;)

Good point Ummmm. Just because mine is surgically attached it doesn't mean his will be.

Any particular reason for 5pm Ed?
OMG evi. was it the ed you had a date with ?
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I wish, look at that rod on him! *swooon*
I think Ed is living in the past when calls from public phone boxes were cheaper in the evening ...

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