Day 2

[jb190281]

Well its day 2 being off work and I feel a bit more relaxed, and Im in a much better frame of mind - thanks to other half, some good friends and some nice AB'ers out there.

Daytime tv is starting to amuse me - why do people think that appearing on jeremy kyle will sort everything out?? The show must pay really well!

Other half been to the shops this morning to get me a newspaper and a pile of magazines (and a pack or 4 of biscuits!). It cant be easy on him either so Im really grateful to him. I go in to hospital tomorrow so fingers crossed we'll be ok then.

So... I didnt really have much to say, other than thanks to those who wished me well yesterday x

[ummmm]

Fingers crossed for you x

Are you still bleeding?

[jb190281]

Yes, and unfortunately, showing no sign of stopping. Its not painful, thankfully

[milliezoe]

I was at a church meeting last night and lit a candle for you god bless you hope everything goes well

[society]

I'm sending get-well wishes to you although I don't know what for. But, whatever it is, I hope everything works out in your favour.

[ummmm]

She's 7 weeks pregnant and has been bleeding since the weekend :-(

[society]

Thanks Ummmmm! You are always so Ummmmmy. x

Hope everything goes well for her. Of course I'm sure she knows to stay off her feet as much as possible.

[ladybird49]

jb hasnt any pain so i hope all goes well and thinking of you xx

[jb190281]

Im becoming an expert on a Nintendo (never even knew how to switch one on previously!), Im bored but amused by daytime tv, and Im eating enough to feed the whole street!
I feel totally useless, but must relax and take it easy. Has anyone experienced a miscarriage? I want to know what I should expect next (heaven forbid but Ive got to brace myself for worst case scenario)

[milliezoe]

My wife miscarried three times at about three months then she sailed through to have a son who is much cherished she had further miscarriges afterwards when we decided not to try anymore I really do feel for you and hope everything is ok for you but worst case scenario its not the end of the world I assume you are young and can try again God bless you

[Bobbisox]

jb pet I sincerely hope all goes well , plenty of rest, I wish you all of the luck in the world and to your hubby too who must be worried sick about you ♥

[theonlyone]

Good luck ,hope all goes well for you and oh x

[jb190281]

Once again, thank you to you all x

[boxtops]

Let us know..... thinking of you and keeping everything very crossed for you.

[jb190281]

thanks boxtops, i will do.
ive pretty much accepted that it isnt right and i know whats going to happen next - does that make me a bad person for being negative? or maybe just realistic... aarrgghhh

[boxtops]

jb, you are being brave and facing up to a real possibility. It's a sad time and you don't know how you should be feeling, nobody does - but everyone reacts differently at a time like this. I have my fingers crossed for you.

[jb190281]

Just to let you all know, Ive had my appointment and its good news. They could detect a heartbeat (yay!), and confirmed Im only 6 weeks pregnant. They dont know what caused the bleeding, but they have found other things which they want to monitor. So, not as bad as i first thought but still approaching with caution!

[ummmm]

Oh good...now make sure you put your feet up...!!! and try and have a positive attitude.

[jb190281]

just to let you all know, the inevitable happened at the weekend.
im very drained, very emotional, but almost relieved that something which we knew 'wasnt right' has resolved itself. thank you again for all your kind thoughts since i started this thread.

[ummmm]

Sorry to hear that xx