Sometimes I tell her she acts like she's in love with me. She says she has never fell in love and neither have I. But sometimes she thinks that I am in love with her but I'm actually not. She has asked me what would it take in order for me to fall in love with her. She asked that the first or second month we got together. She asked me if I was in love plenty of times. But yet she's not in love yet. Why the hell does she want me to fall in love with her but Yet she is not in love yet. Shes keeps saying once I tell her when I am in love then I will know if she is or not.
All sounds rather self centred and childish to me.
Enjoy the relationship regardless, decide for yourself how you feel and what you want or are happy to put up with.
Real love takes a while to grow...it is not the same as finding someone beautiful or lusting for their body. Both of you need to enjoy what you have and not push for more. I wonder if she is insecure.
She says she is not insecure. She doesn't get jealous. But I'm not pushing anything. I'm not rushing to fall in love. She is the one who keeps thinking I am and when I tell her I am not I think it kind of hurt her feelings.
As I said there should be no rushing or pushing.. which she is apparently doing. I think she iss very insecure and is trying to make you commit to something that you may want to do in the future but not yet. This is of some concern and if I was you I would finish this relationship. She sounds very young and so do you.