Very Nearly Came On Here At 6.30 Ish...

[Jeza]

If I had I would have ranted and raved until the cows came home. So I held my breath had a fag and tried to calm down. I'm a lot calmer now but if things carry on as they are.......

[factor-fiction]

What's up Jeza?

[tonyav]

Whats the problem, Jeza ?.

[Baldric]

Hi Jeza, we're all here for you,

[Jeza]

You wouldn't believe it. Today I been punched, nearly bit but managed to get my arm away and I've been spat at. 35 years of marriage and this is what it's come to.

[tonyav]

Mic's had another bad day then, Jeza.

[Tizzi24]

Keep your chin up Jeza.

[Jeza]

I spend hours preparing Mics meals, everything has to be chopped , mashed and minced and then I get it spat all over me, thrown on the floor and the bed. I really am at my wits end with him.

[Prudie]

Jeza I truly do not know how you cope with what you are doing. It's totally selfless. Try to remember he's not really aiming this at the wife he knows and loves.

[tonyav]

Jeza, is there any chance of some respite for you or Mic.

[pusskin]

I do feel for you jeza, sit on your doorstep more often and have them fags that help you feel more relaxed when you've had a bad time. Take care jeza

[Psybbo]

Oh lord Jeza, I just don't know how you manage, Mic is not the man you knew. You are amazing xx

[pixie373]

Tough day, jeza xx any idea what set it off?

[boxtops]

Oh jeza - I know you know it's not really mic, the old mic would be mortified if he knew.... you are one brave woman, still doing this on your own. Do the carers still come in, to help you?

[anneasquith]

I know my reply will not be popular with most of you. but I do believe there comes a time when other arrangements should be considered for all concerned,

[Jeza]

Had the Doc out to him earlier in the week, she said an infection can cause this behaviour. He is now on Anti-Bi's. I hope they kick in soon. Carers here, back later.

[boxtops]

Oh it can, jeza - urine infections, all sorts, can lead to irrational behaviour. I've seen it :-(

[pixie373]

Definitely could be urine infection- although was clear last time. Wondering if any of the carers have been tactless again.

[tonyav]

Fingers crossed that the anti b's start working pretty damned quick, Jeza.

[woofgang]

Piper, you'd do better to read Jeza's other posts before you comment. Its not that easy...it almost never is.