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Gingerbaker | 19:02 Sun 15th Jan 2023 | ChatterBank
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Is being pretentious a coping mechanism just to get through life?

I think it is. If you big yourself up and some one believes it, it releases endorphins and gives you a temporary lift which is good for the soul and mental wellbeing.
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Well this could open a whole can of worms...
Do you mean like an alter ego. Walter Mitty type character?
Whatever makes you happy, I prefer being ones true self.
So do most people, Arky x
Scary isn't it!
An interesting theory GB which has a feeling of credibility about it.

It does not however encourage me to any pretentiousness than I may accidentally display at any time.
It's both unnerving and perplexing I'd say.
* any other pretentiousness
Pretentious - Moi?
A few guilty ones on here.
'characterized by assumption of dignity or importance, especially when exaggerated or undeserved'
Or just pretending you're someone you're not - literally!
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People cope with insecurities in a variety of ways.

An entire multi-billion-pound drug-based industry is rooted in the need for people to find a relaxant to assist them in feeling less awkward in social situations - it's called alcohol.

Other people consciously or subconsciously. exaggerate themselves or their achievements in order to build a bigger impression on people than they feel they would achieve simply by being themselves.

So I would be inclined to agree that it is based on a coping mechanism - feeling relaxed and good about yourself is something we all enjoy - some people simply need it more than others, and compensate accordingly.
I wondered how long it would take...
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Some are able to turn pretentious into supercilious in a few introspective lines.
Isn't it just...
Indeed.
Oh dear, she didn't last long this time.

Wotcher Togo.
Could someone please correct the tile of this thread. It's irritating me enormously. Is that being pretentious?

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