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queenofmean | 15:04 Wed 03rd Feb 2016 | ChatterBank
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I just wanted to drop by to say thank you to everybody for all their kind words and support on the passing of mum. Dad and I appreciate it very much.

We are doing well. I feel like I've done a lot of growing up in the past few weeks, I'm now partially responsible for running a home, looking after 6 mad moggies and looking after dad. I've also found solace in reading, laundry and music. Taking each day as it comes though but slowly yet surely will get there.

So once again a huge heartfelt Thank You from myself and Mr Nungate xx
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Aww I feel for you queen o m, I lost my wonderful Dad last summer - it hurts to lose a parent doesn't it ? Take care of yourself x
no much time passes - you will always miss - I do after 32 years
nothing to say really except a ((hug)) and keep on keeping on Queenie.
We all know what you going through as it seems some of us here have lost a parent including myself. It sounds cliche but it does get better with time.
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Thank you all. Well they do say time is a healer but will see how it goes. But yes viv it does, I've lost grandparents and uncles but to lose mum I've never felt anything like it. I may not show how I feel, but inside I'm broken, although I am trying to repair these breaks by doing things I know mum wanted to do or things that she has enjoyed doing.
Hi Queenie, glad you are coping and keeping busy. Lots of love sibs xx
Good to hear from you Queenie, well done for doing all the things you are.

It does get a little easier with time. Just hold on to those wonderful memories you have. xx
Time isn't a healer. Time makes you get use to it.

Don't bottle up your feelings. When you feel like rubbish, whether it be tomorrow or a year from now, talk about it, cry about it, don't ever think that people think you should be over it. xx
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Thank you Sibs and Marval.

I will. I'm planning to do a Memory Box and I was going to do a Memory Book to put inside and put all those special times into. But right now I'm trying to think where mum kept certain things that we need that dad and I can't find. She was too efficient in her organisational skills!! That or I'm really bad at looking for things.

I'll be online when I can fit in with other things. Love to you all xx
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I will try ummm, but trouble is I'm a bottler, I try not to be. I might try writing my diary more as I find that sometimes that helps. But what you've just said means a lot as I do feel deep down this isn't something you can get over and I feel better now that someone has said that its ok to never be over it. Thank you xx
My dad died in 2008. I'm not over it. I hear a song, see a person....things become reminders...in time the reminders are comforting. Every now and then you might feel the need to remind yourself of the person you've lost. Go with the flow. Sob your heart out xx

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Thank you ummm xx
Who is going to nag you about your toes now queenie.?.take care. Anne.
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Dad probably Anne, but touch wood they haven't been any bother now for at least 4 months or so so I'm pretty chuffed
What ummmm said queenie is spot on. I lost my Mum 2 years ago and still have terrible days, sometimes weeks. I try and think "Mum wouldn't want to see me like this...But, she would understand why I'm like it" You know where I am if you need anything xxx
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Thank you Mazie, I do. I've had moments where things don't feel right, but as you say she would know and understand why. I'll be in touch soon, I've not had a chance to catch up on my mail yet xx
Not one of mine....

One More Day

I wish for nothing more
Than just one more day,
For I would give it all,
Just to hear her say.

It's funny how
In life it seems
You take for granted
The most important things.

To feel her close,
And be safe again,
Safe from my own self,
Back with my best friend.

Yes, she was the best,
And at other times the only,
My Friend, you left me here,
And now my heart is lonely.

If you could just come back,
If only for one day,
I'd make sure that I'd listen
To all you had to say.

And now that it's too late,
You cannot speak anymore.
I finally realised,
I should have heard you before.

And if I could do it over,
I'd only change one thing,
I'd tell you that I love you,
And how much joy to me you bring.

No one will ever know
Quite how I feel inside,
And on that day you left,
You weren't the only one who died.

You have always been there, Mum,
And you loved me 'til the end,
So with all my heart and soul,
I love you too, My Friend
xxxx
Keep going, Queenie. You are doing well. xx
it is one step at a time Queenie....mum would be so proud of you right now..I know I am....xx

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