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Step Families - Advice Needed Please
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My OH youngest daughter hates me (with a passion). She doesnt live with us but is going to my OH brothers house at the weekend to spend a few days with him, she has asked if my OH can go up for the day and see her, he has asked me to take the day off and go with him as he would like me to be there too, knwoing full well what she thinks of but (in his words) she's got to get over it that we are together, have been for 6 years and she isnt going to split us up no matter how hard she tries (and boy howdy has she tried!!).. shes 16.
I have taken the day off work and he has told her.... all hell has broken loose... she has gone off her rocker. So I have said, so that he can see her I will back down and not go but he is adamant that she is not going to get her own way by throwing a paddy and he wants me to be there, which is lovely of him, but she is now saying/threatening that she wont even go to her uncles for those few days as SHE (i.e me) will be there.
What to do?
I have taken the day off work and he has told her.... all hell has broken loose... she has gone off her rocker. So I have said, so that he can see her I will back down and not go but he is adamant that she is not going to get her own way by throwing a paddy and he wants me to be there, which is lovely of him, but she is now saying/threatening that she wont even go to her uncles for those few days as SHE (i.e me) will be there.
What to do?
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Kat2206, I can't offer much in the way of advice but your situation mirrors mine. You have my sincere sympathy.
Teenagers are a particularly unpleasant breed who go to defcon 4 for no reason whatsoever. I personally wouldn't back down - although as someone said to me recently (quite wisely), "learn to choose your battles".
Try this link:- http://www.beingastepparent.co.uk/
Teenagers are a particularly unpleasant breed who go to defcon 4 for no reason whatsoever. I personally wouldn't back down - although as someone said to me recently (quite wisely), "learn to choose your battles".
Try this link:- http://www.beingastepparent.co.uk/
kat I personally think she will grow out of it eventually, probably when she falls in love herself and may even realise what a cow she was. At least you've got your OH's backing, so that will make it easier until she grows up! I agree with ummmm though, I just wouldn't go.
(Can I just ask bernie a question if he's still on - how is your fish?)
(Can I just ask bernie a question if he's still on - how is your fish?)
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