Is It Normal To Forget Your Friends When Moving In With A Partner?

[abbeylee90]

My friend has recently moved in with her boyfriend. I spoke to her in a group with my other friend last week about my birthday and said she can't commit to a night out in advance due to money which is fine. She hasn't messaged me first either. Is that life of moving out? 

[abbeylee90]

She also gave my friend her opinion on what to wear for her date in group last night but not responded  to what I should wear for tonight 

[1ozzy]

Have you thought of asking all the fashion gurus on AB what you should wear?

That would be a novel experience.

 

[scorpiojo]

Again, if you've not spoken since February, look at it go.

[scorpiojo]

Great idea, 1ozzy 😉

[1ozzy]

One must try their best to be patient,,but 🤔

[scorpiojo]

*let it go, not look

[abbeylee90]

I will but don't know why she switched 

[Arksided]

Your friend seems lovely Abbey and patiently decisive. Good luck to her.

[abbeylee90]

She asked how my friends date went bit not mine or said her opinion on which outfit 

[Impatiens]

Abbey, do you remember what I said last Sunday? Why don't you spend your Sunday afternoons doing something more interesting than dredging up old grievances?

[abbeylee90]

I've been out all day

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you came back to this thread just to list more 'faults' from your friend... she's obviously getting to you! Can you not just accept that friendships sometimes just ebb and flow, sometimes die back a little?

[abbeylee90]

I understand they fizzle out but didn't expect that feel like she's changed 

[Neveracrossword]

Yes, maybe she has changed, Abbey - that does happen, for all sorts of reasons. 

[scorpiojo]

Accept that it's fizzled out, and move on.

[Captain2]

I presume Abbey is having a boring night in tonight then?

[scorpiojo]

Maybe she's deciding between pizza and Chinese 

[Captain2]

Wouldn't there be a thread for that, jo?

[abbeylee90]

No had cooked dinner tonight maybe she has a good enough reason well see if she can come out for my birthday or not 

[douglas9401]

Anybody remember 'forthcoming attractions at a glance' at the flicks years ago?