Is It Normal To Forget Your Friends When Moving In With A Partner?

[abbeylee90]

My friend has recently moved in with her boyfriend. I spoke to her in a group with my other friend last week about my birthday and said she can't commit to a night out in advance due to money which is fine. She hasn't messaged me first either. Is that life of moving out? 

[Redhelen72]

Why should she make it up to you 

[abbeylee90]

I mean like offer to go for a meal or coffee 

[Canary42]

Impatiens makes a good point - you do seem to over-think relatively trivial hiccups in life's rich pattern.   

[abbeylee90]

She said to me when  I was with my ex never distance yourself from your friends incase you break she could head the same way 

[Redhelen72]

You are sounding very jealous. 
let it go and move on

[scorpiojo]

Then let her. Perhaps you are too needy, and no, she doesn't have anything to make it up to you for.

 

[abbeylee90]

Use to turn to her when I was in trouble but I don't think I could now 

[scorpiojo]

Maybe she's had enough.

[abbeylee90]

Won't be that as I haven't done for a while about guys 

[newmodarmy]

Well move on. You sound rather spoilt and self centred and selfish with your recent postings on friends and dates and the way your disappointing  jobs record is always the fault of others.

 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, it really does sound as if you need your friend much more than she needs you. She helped you out before, but I don't think she'd turn to you if she needed help. You seem to be expecting an awful lot from everyone else, and very little from yourself!

[abbeylee90]

Well I've prepared for and not spoke to her individually since February only through friends and thought about what if we not as close as we were and if she gone of me what will life be like

[Hazlinny]

Abbey/  With all the handsome men you are meeting just now, I shouldn't worry about a girl friend who has moved in with her partner.  It happens. x

[abbeylee90]

Of course if I did get a boyfriend she would only find out via group or social media 

[scorpiojo]

Does it matter?

[abbeylee90]

Hopefully not if she don't ask why I didn't tell her 

[scorpiojo]

If you've not spoken since February, let it go.

[abbeylee90]

Only through the group 

[Barsel]

Four threads are all running this evening. I'm off.

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[abbeylee90]

Well see if she comes out for my birthday