Age Difference

[Jeffju]

Is 9 years to big a gap do you think? There looks more years between us as I look quite a lot younger than I am (so people tell me!)

[ummmm]

I take it you're the younger one?

No, 9 years is ok. My daughters father was 11 years older than me.

[mrs_overall]

It depends. If one of you is 18 and the other is 9 years younger, then you deffo have a problem

[ummmm]

Mrs O...I was 17..he was 28. Would not change it for the world.

He was never a father figure but he taught me some valuable lessons. Finances being the main one.

[cazzz1975]

sounds okay to me

[Bambiagain]

I'm 9 years older than him.

[Francis Asis]

If you have to ask then it sounds like maybe YOU have a problem with it.

[bobjugs12]

Now I'm confused? ^^Are you jeffju ?

[ummmm]

Oh God, I hope not :-(

[Bambiagain]

If you're asking me, bobjugs, I'm referring to another him.

[Francis Asis]

Boojugs, Who me? No. Its just that if jeffju is asking if its too big an agegap he/she must have thought it.

[bobjugs12]

No francis, we cross-posted mate lol

[ummmm]

But I have her email address and phone number...pmsl :-)

[cazzz1975]

lol bob, but you realise that the comment will stay there forever as well..she may still find it in passing

[Francis Asis]

Ok. It got a bit confusing there for a minute

[bobjugs12]

Sugar, oh yeah. Answer reported lol

[Bambiagain]

Age is only a problem if either of you consider it to be. If we have problems (and who doesn't?) they're not age-related.