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is this the modern day affair?

i was at the doctors today read an old take a break magazine story about a woman who left her husband for a man she met online. I say 'met' but she hadnt met him physicaly. Turned out he had a wife with kids an never left them so the woman had nothing. Her husband scarpered as he was undestandably mortified when he found out. So is it common in this 2!st century for these online affairs?


ddaisy992  Wed 19/11/08 23:18
jno
Wed 19/11/08
23:21
wishful thinking and sheer stupidity have been known throughout the ages.
no.knowledge
Wed 19/11/08
23:25
I would never do it again ,not after what happened last time!
ddaisy992
Wed 19/11/08
23:28

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yep suppose she must hav been desperately unhappy in her marriage too leave for someone she hadnt even met. Cant help feeling sorry for the poor sod of a husband.
CheekyChops
Wed 19/11/08
23:28
Did you see those two in the papers at the weekend?

She divorced hoim because she found his online 'alter ego' having sex with another person in the game Second Life?

What a load of rubbish!!! I wouldn't mind, but the two in question met each other online in the first place...

I wouldn't like a partner of mine chatting up other women online but I would never call it an affair until they actually met in the flesh. Let's face it, how many people completely lie about themselves online - me? I'm blonde, 8 stone and 25.... honest.
Ice.Maiden
Wed 19/11/08
23:32
Lol - I'm blonde, eight and a hald stone and 29 - HONEST!
Ice.Maiden
Wed 19/11/08
23:33
And sorry for the typo, but I was laughing , because I haven't met anyone on line who I think's telling a whopper.
no.knowledge
Wed 19/11/08
23:34
are you looking for a tall dark handsome 30 something?
ddaisy992
Wed 19/11/08
23:35

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yes i saw that cheekychops it was wierd. The story i read was from the womans point of veiw, showed she was remorseful but she split up her family for an online lotharoio!(her words).
legendis.god
Wed 19/11/08
23:37
Well nkleggy .

Looks like theres a chance for me then eh ?

Better polish my sporran and get my kilt ironed.

Theers a woman out there ganting for it , and im single too , so no wife etc to worry about.


Ooooooh la la la la la la la laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa


ddaisy992
Wed 19/11/08
23:38

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ha ha Icemaiden, I am a dead ringer for Lara croft, yeah if she was squished by a anvil!
ddaisy992
Wed 19/11/08
23:45

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Ah legindsgod she seems up for it ha ha, hope you get on well with lustydusty 0). I am all caffiened up as i had 2 costa latteys after the cinema. Saw quantam solace its a good film with a great stand out performance by whatsisnane.who cares? Beds calling. Daisy
legendis.god
Wed 19/11/08
23:52
daisy i dont know lusty dusty
i mean ive seen a photo with a mask on

and she seems nice

but then you could be nice too ?


And i think i read ur single?

So where are ya ?

mAYBE I COULD POP OVER ?
Ice.Maiden
Wed 19/11/08
23:57
Sorry noknow - spoken for - but I'll bear you in mind. : )

Must say, ddaisy - Angelina Jolie as Lara Croft was fab. I think she has a naturally beautiful face, and all that lovely long dark hair.... no wonder Brad fancied her.

legendis.god
Wed 19/11/08
23:58
icey she sounds more angelina dumpy ?

lol


well she said it




daisy are you short and fat ?
Ice.Maiden
Thurs 20/11/08
00:04
Splutter!!!! Aww....oh dear...I've no idea what ddaisy looks like, but I'm not lying about me, because you've seen pics.

Have you polished your sporran then Leggy? Kilts...ahhh....very smart.

As to ddaisy's question - I don't see any difference between meeting someone on line, or anywhere else, but surely no one in their right mind'd leave a partner before meeting up with their cyber friend first, and getting to know them???
pastafreak
Thurs 20/11/08
00:10
Surely HE must have realised the pooh would hit the fan when they met up......??..that she would find out?

She must have been awfully unhappy to have put all her hope into someone she'd never met.


zebra
Thurs 20/11/08
00:15
I agree with Ice Maiden but it also proves that it is cheating, if you meet/chat online, as people do now consider online relationships as real.
legendis.god
Thurs 20/11/08
00:21
icey ive not seen ya
Ice.Maiden
Thurs 20/11/08
00:22
Rofl @ jno!! Awww...and there was me, thinking they were very good likenesses!!!!!! : )

Zebra - a totally on line relationship, without ever meeting that person, is pure fantasy, based on what you think the other person's really like. It's no substitute for getting to know someone in real life. I know of two happy marriages, where initially, the couples met on chat sites, but they all met up loads of times before they realised they'd found something special.
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