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Confused with the Ex

My live-in boyfriend and I decided to break up last weekend. He was supposed to move out yesterday but still here. Not only that but he keep referring to me as his girlfriend though I correct him each time as his ex. I still love him but I can go on without him but I'm just confused because he's acting like we never broke up! Is this his way of saying he wants me back or what? Or should I go all 'psycho' and put him out? I don't want to hate him. Any ideas?


keelson01  Sun 16/11/08 19:39
lil123
Sun 16/11/08
20:48
What do you want to happen?
Do you want to reconcile with him
keelson01
Sun 16/11/08
22:34

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I don't really care as I am tired of his egomaniac personality... I want him to leave but I don't want it to be nasty
redheadisbac
Mon 17/11/08
00:58
u just answered ur own question there , pack his dirty git stuff and send the rat packing
Velvetee
Mon 17/11/08
11:43
Perhaps he won't go because he has nowhere else to go and he enjoys the cosy set up?

How do you mean he has an egomaniacal personality,how does it manifest itself?
ceejn
Mon 17/11/08
13:49
He's choosing to ignore what you said so he can stay put.Maybe he thinks if he carries on as before you'll come round.
If you really want him out you've got to be firmer.Give him a deadline.Goodluck

JustSia
Mon 17/11/08
23:53
Um... communication is the key. Talk to the guy. Not one person here can speak for him and tell you whether he wants you back or not.

S.
keelson01
Tue 18/11/08
00:02

Question Author

Ok I have talked to him and he's supposed to leave this weekend so I'm hoping it'll go smoothly.

@Velvetee: he has too much pride and wants to be in control all the time. The actual main reason for the break up is because he wants to control me and I REFUSE to be a puppet to anyone!

Thanks to everyone for your advice
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