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There was this girl who really liked me, or so she had told me via text, she is 19 year old and has a 7month old son. We had been on a couple of dates but nothing more than a kiss had happened, anyway one night i dropped her off uptown as she was meeting friends for a drink, we had our usual kiss before i left her, and agreed that id pick her up later on that night that she was just to phone me, which she never so next day i tried to contact her and she says she stayed at her mates giving me all the babe and huni crap when speaking to her. Anyways after 2 days after she has ignored me since accept once where i got one word answers, why was she all i really like u, always asking me to hers etc and then suddenly not to talk to me and not tell me why? I really do like her and i dont know why she has suddenly went quiet on me (only reason i can think is she is going with someone else) any ideas on how to get her back??

chris1987uk Sun 16/11/08 13:36

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collywobs
Sun 16/11/08
16:04

"she is 19 year old and has a 7month old son"

consider yourself the lucky escapee and find someone else .if she had really liked you at all she would never have treated you like she did so chin up move on .out there is a great big old world FULL of interesting people . but i know it hurts

legendis.god
Sun 16/11/08
16:06

who said that ????

lol

i think youre safer out of it

onwards and upwards

sara3
Sun 16/11/08
16:08

don't just sit around waiting for her to click her fingers. she hasn't shown you any respect and we all deserve better than that.

1955
Sun 16/11/08
16:13

The night you dropped her off - she may have met someone else and spent the night with him - sounds like she is just using you - find someone else - you deserve better!!

chris1987uk
Mon 17/11/08
00:42

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thanks for the advice, it is hard to move on did like her, and she was serious with the childs father untill she fell pregnant and he ******** off and left her and she deserves better than to be treated like that but then so do i so ill try to move on thanks again folks

goodbyegirl
Mon 17/11/08
00:50

I thought it was only men who ignored for no reason. Honest.

You sound like a really nice bloke Chris, its really fustrating to be happily with someone one min, to find they ignore you the next. Why do they do it?

I hope you can move on, and meet someone really nice.

Good luck to you x

redheadisbac
Mon 17/11/08
00:53

agree with the first answer , colly

19 with a kid - forget it mate , plenty more fish out there , she proabaly sees u as someone she can call when she needs a taxi or is feeling a bit low , sorry to be harsh but she is not interested or she would have met u that nite and let u take her home , no matter how drunk , she could have also made effort over the next few days

delete her i know its hard but it will never work out

redheadisbac
Mon 17/11/08
00:55

woops and all the other answers in fact ( i couldnt be arsed to read them but when i did they are in fact all right)

Sgt.Rock
Mon 17/11/08
09:30

Stayed with a friend, mmmm., I bet.
Men on here should understand that most women are unhinged, jealous, mad texters who are strangers to the truth.
Leave her well alone.

lil123
Mon 17/11/08
17:44

It's sounds to me that maybe she is not single and not told you the whole truth

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