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Not ready for advice or comfort yet but....

if anyone would like to join in the insults, that might help. I was going out with a fella for 3 and a half years and have just been dumped BY EMAIL. What a selfish immature cowardly tw@t he is.


Suzyboo  Wed 15/10/08 21:43
terambulan
Wed 15/10/08
22:28
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Email him back and say "thanks luv, you saved me having to tell you I've been seeing your best mate"!

He's probably been 2-timing you.....you're well rid.
Suzyboo
Wed 15/10/08
22:28

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Short version is " I tried to phone but the line was engaged. I love you but I don't think that I'm actually in love with you. I've met someone else but nothing has happened yet" Regardless of what it said though IT WAS AN EMAIL!!!!!!!!!!!
Bathsheba
Wed 15/10/08
22:30
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Suzyboo- please tell us he didn't end it with the old "hope we can still be friends" line xx
Suzyboo
Wed 15/10/08
22:33

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Not yet Bathsheba - think that bit will come when he remembers how much of his stuff is still at my house that he will want back!
ELVIS68
Wed 15/10/08
22:35
You can be nice and nasty to him in one short email

Just tell him he had a bigger c0ck than his mates
Suzyboo
Wed 15/10/08
22:36

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I'd rather just be nasty and tell him that his is smaller than his mates!
terambulan
Wed 15/10/08
22:39
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He should have thought of his possessions before he sent the email....now has he left any debts? You can sell his things in lieu of rent or such. Or cut the sleeves off his coats/shirts/jackets pour orange juice on his gizmos pc/digi games & camera.....have fun, flog or ruin all his things.

Have a 'smashing party'! Get your mates in and drink all his booze ;)
Panic Button
Wed 15/10/08
22:39
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Put all his stuff in black binbags, with a kipper in each bag.
Jenna1978
Thurs 16/10/08
08:47
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Someone else as well :( My recent ex (split up in July but just moved out of our shared flat last weekend) has admitted he is seeing someone else and it hurts enough even though he wasn't seeing her before we split so I can't imagine hon :(

What an evil git :(






terambulan
Thurs 16/10/08
08:53
Am email - not cool! Phil Collins did it by fax.
no.knowledge
Thurs 16/10/08
09:13
sh*t how the hell did i miss this thread!
terambulan
Thurs 16/10/08
09:16
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go-on, give us his email and we can spam him.....but you certain you dont want him back?

There's a world of truly gorgeous/loveable/handsome/caring/rich/poor/fit men out here. He's a non-committal yellow, chuck him back for recycling.
jackthehat
Thurs 16/10/08
10:57
Belt-up, Raggy.
And no-one in a same-sex relationship has ever had their heart broken by a grade 1a b@stard ?
I was commiserating with suzyboo.....
Please don't start making comments regarding my lifestyle after all of my postings.............it will quickly become tedious for all...........
jackthehat
Thurs 16/10/08
13:39
I didn't have to know any of the circumstances other than as Suzyboo stated them..........I entered the conversation at her invitation.............

I've noticed you giving 'helpful' advice on other threads today..............hmmmm.......not terribly 'sensible advice, either.

Pot, kettle............?
Petal~flower
Thurs 16/10/08
13:46
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Suzyboo..... he is a spineless to**er.


jackthehat
Thurs 16/10/08
13:54
She doesn't HAVE to be blameless..............

Oh, read my previous response...........I can't be bothered with you !!

And tongues, whether in cheeks or anywhere else, are not that visible on a computer monitor..............!!
jackthehat
Thurs 16/10/08
14:02
Oooh, a Mrs Slocombe-esque joke.................how very 21st Century of you...........what next, an insight into your relationship with your Mother-in-Law ?
helster
Thurs 16/10/08
14:17
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What a pathetit t it! You're best rid. X
bms
Thurs 16/10/08
15:03


Well, we can't justify that dumping you using an e-mail was a bad idea, but we could offer a better advice although not requested, if we could hear from both sides. I think there are reasons that led him to so doing, of which you might know.
MAY BE you were no longer satisfying him, we actaully don't know what led to this situation.

I can't insult someone not having heard both sides, may be you are the one to be insulted.

Good Luck with your future in relationships.
jackthehat
Thurs 16/10/08
17:44
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^^Raggy - The object of this post is to make Suzyboo feel a bit better...........that her ex-boyfriend will probably never see or know about it is neither here nor there..........

bms - you are perfectly at liberty to read this post 'and pass on' if you can't justify insulting someone based solely on what suzyboo has posted, so why bother leaving a post explaining why you won't be joining in ? That is entirely NOT in the spirit of the posts Suzyboo was seeking........
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