what brings people together?

[monkhousebob]

is it fate? is it people thinking you are cool so they want to be around you?? ive been through a lot of friends who i would say were cool people with similar views on life but i can never remember how i met them....its making me think if i was more proactive i could make meeting new people easier instead of waiting for life to happen, true friends are hard to come by in your 20s .....im finding out the hard way, after uni went straight into a job, focussed on that for a few years now all i have are aquaintances .....it leaves me yearning for my uni days but i know with the right friends i can blossom again but theyre so hard to find.... ive been on dating sites etc but am just starting to doubt people and losing faith....i know it sounds silly but i tried filling my exes shoes with loads of loud laddy lads and its not moved me forward one bit to where i want. i need to take stock, i know what id like......but i want never gets......doesit????

[WhiteBear]

how long u got? lol

[Bathsheba]

Aawww!! This is so lovely!! I'm gettin goosebumps!! x

[monkhousebob]

whitey shal i switch computers?? wil u b online long?

[WhiteBear]

lol monk :P

i should b here for another hr.

bath its nothing! lol

[Bathsheba]

Quick- someone tell monk how to do pm's in Sports- i don't think he knows how!

[monkhousebob]

ok gna do it now....so go sport and register pm yeah??? gimme 5

[monkhousebob]

how do i do it then lol

[Petal~flower]

bob, go to sports and log in with your usual name and password

[monkhousebob]

yeah log in an then what?

[snagged]

or... just create a new, 'temporary' hotmail addy and post it on here to make 'initial' contact... then bin it...

...before whitebear gives up and joins adultfriendfinder lol

:o)

[Petal~flower]

add Whitebear as a friend.... then send her a message

[WhiteBear]

Oh-No-NoKnow: ASL?? lol


monk: ive sent u a message!

[WhiteBear]

haha snagged :P x im not that desparate!

[monkhousebob]

grrr why cant i get her on the sports....this is so frustrating..... setting up an email addy will take ages

[monkhousebob]

and where do i read this message is this some kind of answerbank underworld lol, i didnt know u could do all this

[snagged]

ffs monkhousebob... get it together will ya! ;o))