m e n !

[delsgirl]

Last Friday my partner came home in a really bad mood. He went for a nap and came back downstairs a couple of hours later. I was really nice and said do you feel better and he exploded again. He ranted and raved all evening, I always call Friday nights our night as its the night my kids go to their fathers for the night. Anyway he was absolutely awful and said how much he really really hated me and he does not fancy me ( im always complaining that we never have sex as he has his own bedroom due to a bad back, which has been great recently (his back). I get the impression he was upset before he got home. I have not spoken to him since, and he pretended on 2 occasions that nothing had happened, the cheeky swine and even asked if i wanted to go for our usual drink, I refused of course as i wouldnt want to be with someone who hated me. Is he just a weird Aquarian ? Or just picking a fight on fridays to go out with his mates

[delsgirl]

What DHT?

[delsgirl]

Yes you probably right, we have nothing, ive always been excluded from his kids there not my cup of tea anyway so let it carry on. He;s just got back in now, so he's not out late or anything, and at 55 years old he couldnt cope lol, thats one of my complaints, but no there no communication and as I said Aquarians do like there independance and can be very detached people when they want to be. Apologies to the nice Aquarians. He just making a stand to say "I can do what I want"

[weeal]

well...good luck delsgirl, i hope all goes ok for you

[Quoi]

No delsgirl - far from it - he is attention seeking & doing these things because he thinks it gets to you.

[cazzz1975]

Have you ever stopped him doings stuff or tried to change him?? it sounds like he is feeling controlled, hence his behaviour

[Myriad2112]

God are you lot still going on?
You're like a load of old women
..... Oh sorry I forgot you are.

[cazzz1975]

less of the old myriad, I will clatter you with a frying pan

[Quoi]

Hey Myriad!! I was trying to help here but they wouldnt ask a man to understand PMT would they so why do they think a woman could deal with this one ?

[delsgirl]

QUOI - is that what you are doing / as you said earlier it was your back out campaign. But if still looking for attention, then to me thats not a back out. If wanting atention by wanting a reaction says thats it not. Im not the type to react by crying or having my tantrum, i just completely ignore and it drives people wild. Im too busy for tantrums, ove already had 2 children dont want a 55 old one aswell.

[Myriad2112]

By the way WEEL, you're book seems quite acurate.
I took my fathers advice and married a cook. That way there's never any arguments about who owns the kitchen.

[weeal]

tee hee everyone calls me weel

its Wee Al really

[Quoi]

delsgirl - i know what I wanted to happen when this all started for me - Its just that i'll be bu$$ered if I will tell her what it is - I will share some thoughts if you want but if not I am back off to Mars.

[Ice.Maiden]

TELL him, delsgirl. Explain exactly how his manner makes you feel - and gravitate, I can understand that we all get fed up at times, but dg's partner sounds well out of line to speak to her in the way that he does. If he doesn't respect her, how can he expect it back?

[cazzz1975]

I think you have to stop blaming the starsign element, if that were the case all aquarians would be hard to live with, which isnt the case at all.

You both sound like the relationship has come to a natural end, he is acting out because maybe he wants you to end it and if he keeps up the behaviour eventually you will

[delsgirl]

Oh dear myriad you have let yourself down, and theres me thinking you were nice, age didnt bother you earlier when asking for phone number

[Myriad2112]

Sorry Wee Al, and no Quoi you're right
I don't understand PMT, If I feel unwell I go quietly to my bed and neither blame nor shout at anyone.

[Myriad2112]

no if fact I prefer the 'older' woman Delgirl.
Waht are you doing tommorow night???????

[Quoi]

lol see you on Mars myriad - delsgirl I have sent you a PM - leave it with you.

[delsgirl]

Cheers everybody - At least ive made a stand of not going out with him or talking for a few days, he will know its all about respect (hopefully cant be that thick). I will not put up with being shouted at and told im hated or un sleepable with. I know different, and have always kept myself in good shape. I havnt tried to change him or stopped him doing things, its only been 3 weeks since he got back from skiing with his mates. All im asking for is a friday night when the kids away, not too much i dont think.