Sexual shyness.......?

[BettyAbominable]

Im not new to sex! My fiance nd I have been together for a while, nd I'm completely comfortable with him seeing me nude, or having sex. I'm fine with any position we try except that I feel insecure or shy about being the one on top. So this doesn't happen often, but its something he enjoys. Any explanation, or ways to overcome this?

[chi-chi66]

Invisiblelady....

http://www.theanswerb.../Question1154407.html

[Duncer]

Guys, I don't want to spoil a party but, but being Irish, Northern Irish, Ive never heard so much bunkum, and I know most posters are posting in a light hearted manner, but people are what you find them, and their nationality/colour/religion are utterly irrlevant.

[invisiblelady]

Errrm...I've read all that before. What is the connection??? lol

[chi-chi66]

ND...

[gness]

Then don`t Duncer.

[piggynose]

try lots of foreplay first, then see where that takes you

[Duncer]

"Then don`t Duncer."

Too late - I already did.

Am up, and sobered up, although feeling a little chastened.

[flobadob]

Just try to accept that he likes looking at you.

[pizza]

MMM when I first read the post I thought o sh*t I never feel that comfortable on top maybe because I can't see the ceiling needs painting lol but then I read the previous post about hymenoplasomy n think what the hell is going on !!
Please keep us informed x

[joggerjayne]

Just remind yourself of all the benefits of being on top.

1. You take control of the, err, "proceedings".

2. You can watch the telly.

3. ... or read a book,

4. ... or text your pals.

5. ... etc.

(ps. It helps if you face away from him, so he can't see what you're doing)

[Psybbo]

jj, if I was betty. you would get best answer

[joggerjayne]

Thanks, sibton x

[seadogg]

A riding crop is handy.

[DaisyNonna]

Craig, thinking of any of that lot would immediately result in permanent frigidity.

[Quizmonkey]

Never turn the lights off for sex! The eyes are one of our most important sexual organs.