Dating site boyfriend....is this normal...

[spotsandstripes]

Met a guy online and all seemed really well. last night he then told me he wouldn't be deleting any of his online dating profiles because he 'cant remember the passwords' (online three days ago) and he doesn't use them, and wont use them now we have met. All three profiles online are profiles he is paying for too. I don't get why he is wanting to keep them, especially since its costing him £35 a month? If he is not using them why not delete?

Should I get rid of this one now? or am I being silly? Honest opinions wanted.

[Horlock]

Spotsandstripes, if things progress and become serious and you both then decide to become exclusive to each other than i would be suspicious if he or you still wanted to keep your profiles open as when you get to that point you just have to throw suspicion in the air and take a gamble at love and then if it goes boobs up, then at least you tried and gave it your best shot as every relationship can't be a winner.
I wish you good luck in the future and hope you find what you're looking for and deserve.

[joko]

how long have you been with him? if its only a week or two then i can understand him not being sure yet...but if its been ages, then id wonder where you stand

[Smowball]

just wondered how you know he was online 3 days ago?

[liquidspace]

Its too early to expect him to be exclusive, this goes for you too. Until you both decide you like each other not to date other people or chat online then he is entitled to keep his profile open. You cant force a relationship to be something it isn't ready for yet....everything will happen naturally if it is meant to be. If you give him a hard time about it he will not appreciate it.