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About 10 years ago, I had a one night stand with a celebrity. I have not seen him since.
I am now going to work on a production with him - he is the boss of the company.
If this were a normal job, I would just turn it down, but it is only for a few months, and he is pretty famous so I am keen to do this as he has industry weight and obviously anything he is connected with will probably do well - so it is good for my career.
However - how do act towards him?
Obviously I will not be winking at him or anything forward, lol, but seriously, do I act like we have never met before and say nothing, or do I be polite and perhaps in private acknowledge it and assure him that no-one knows and it will not affect the production?
Should I wait and see if he says anything?
He may not even remember himself! Though we did spend an evening and night together, so he likely will.
He is now married ( though after a bit of research on dates etc, I suspect he may have been married at the time, though I didn't know it then - or at least going out with her - I may be wrong, I am just guessing)
I am going to a meeting next week, and I will of course be professional, but I just feel a bit weird and nervous about it.
I also am concerned that as soon as he recognises me I may be 'let go' for some random reason.
I don't want him to worry that it will be spoken about to anyone else.
I have no feelings whatsoever for him and have no intention of causing him any pain
Can anyone give me any advice of the best course of action?
Thank You
I am now going to work on a production with him - he is the boss of the company.
If this were a normal job, I would just turn it down, but it is only for a few months, and he is pretty famous so I am keen to do this as he has industry weight and obviously anything he is connected with will probably do well - so it is good for my career.
However - how do act towards him?
Obviously I will not be winking at him or anything forward, lol, but seriously, do I act like we have never met before and say nothing, or do I be polite and perhaps in private acknowledge it and assure him that no-one knows and it will not affect the production?
Should I wait and see if he says anything?
He may not even remember himself! Though we did spend an evening and night together, so he likely will.
He is now married ( though after a bit of research on dates etc, I suspect he may have been married at the time, though I didn't know it then - or at least going out with her - I may be wrong, I am just guessing)
I am going to a meeting next week, and I will of course be professional, but I just feel a bit weird and nervous about it.
I also am concerned that as soon as he recognises me I may be 'let go' for some random reason.
I don't want him to worry that it will be spoken about to anyone else.
I have no feelings whatsoever for him and have no intention of causing him any pain
Can anyone give me any advice of the best course of action?
Thank You
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houdini, I don't think he's going to remember you unless you've got two heads or something. Would you remember him if he wasn't famous? After 10 years? Even I struggle to remember the person I slept with 10 years ago despite us still being together... If he does remember you and you don't want to discuss it, just say it must have been your twin sister. If you both feel like restaging the encounter, up to you but I think you'd be unwise. Just smile demurely and treat him like an affable stranger. Do not mention the tattoo on his private parts. You shouldn't have any trouble keeping your job.
Lol at dot.hawkes, good one, no not lee evans.
Laurence, what are you on? Yes it take two to tango =and your point?
I am not denying what happened!
You cannot shame me laurence - I have done nothing wrong. I am a grown woman, I am entitled to sleep with whoever I like. He is a grown man and is also allowed to do the same.
I am not ashamed of getting together with him, it was lovely day, we hung out, we had dinner, had a nice chat, got close and spent the night and much of the next day together - so what?
If this was just about some bloke you wouldn't have said all this, it's because he is famous and you cannot get your tiny mind around the fact that they are just people, like everyone else, they do meet and know other people.
If I was after sleeping to get ot the top, I would have and could have chosen many much more famous people than him - I mix with the rich and famous daily - it's my job!
Laurence, what are you on? Yes it take two to tango =and your point?
I am not denying what happened!
You cannot shame me laurence - I have done nothing wrong. I am a grown woman, I am entitled to sleep with whoever I like. He is a grown man and is also allowed to do the same.
I am not ashamed of getting together with him, it was lovely day, we hung out, we had dinner, had a nice chat, got close and spent the night and much of the next day together - so what?
If this was just about some bloke you wouldn't have said all this, it's because he is famous and you cannot get your tiny mind around the fact that they are just people, like everyone else, they do meet and know other people.
If I was after sleeping to get ot the top, I would have and could have chosen many much more famous people than him - I mix with the rich and famous daily - it's my job!
i gave you a fantasy answer to apease your fantasy world you tart.
SICK TWISTED WEIRDO am i?
because i can see through you {tart}
What self dignified woman would come on to a website posting about sleeping with someone very famous, then when people ask who it is, you play ''mind games'' with them, do you get off on posting bullsh!te then?
if its true, say who the fcuk it is then, who the hells going to know who you are anyway, otherwise go drown somewhere, may i suggest the middle of the atlantic
Tramp
SICK TWISTED WEIRDO am i?
because i can see through you {tart}
What self dignified woman would come on to a website posting about sleeping with someone very famous, then when people ask who it is, you play ''mind games'' with them, do you get off on posting bullsh!te then?
if its true, say who the fcuk it is then, who the hells going to know who you are anyway, otherwise go drown somewhere, may i suggest the middle of the atlantic
Tramp
Oh my god - "mind games" now! HA HA!
Oh puurrrlleeeaaassse - you are getting worse, you freak!
Why are you so bothered?
Also clearly misunderstanding the word fantasy if that is your idea of a fantasy answer meant to appease... good god man you are truly stupid and somewhat deranged.
It is not, brucie, roger, anthony andrews, kenny, jeremy irons, bobby c, or tony
Oh puurrrlleeeaaassse - you are getting worse, you freak!
Why are you so bothered?
Also clearly misunderstanding the word fantasy if that is your idea of a fantasy answer meant to appease... good god man you are truly stupid and somewhat deranged.
It is not, brucie, roger, anthony andrews, kenny, jeremy irons, bobby c, or tony
actually good point there laurence, noone would know who this was anyway, imagine the scene
ring ring ' hello Blair residence'
me: Hi can i speak to cheri please?
blair: sorry she's just nipped to the co-op can i help?
me: are you tony?
blair: yes, yes i am, what can i do for you?
me: did you ever sleep with Houdini?
blair: mmmm, there's no escaping that one is there?
ring ring ' hello Blair residence'
me: Hi can i speak to cheri please?
blair: sorry she's just nipped to the co-op can i help?
me: are you tony?
blair: yes, yes i am, what can i do for you?
me: did you ever sleep with Houdini?
blair: mmmm, there's no escaping that one is there?
it was having the famous father-in-law that gave the game away, dot...
laurence, give it a rest. Women can sleep with anyone they want as the long as the guy wants to too. It's a better way of spending time than sitting in front of a computer typing out abuse to throw at someone you don't even know, don't you think?
laurence, give it a rest. Women can sleep with anyone they want as the long as the guy wants to too. It's a better way of spending time than sitting in front of a computer typing out abuse to throw at someone you don't even know, don't you think?
