I honestly thought this was going to be a fun site for sharing info and debating, discovering opinions and so on but the more I visit the more "closed shop" it appears to be. Messages going to and fro with smudge, netibiza, silly moo, InAPickle (as was), FP, graemer (and his extra wife situation) so I won't forget Robinia - everyone else can join in (unless for some obscure reason they are benned) but no community spirit is shown and the impression I get is I'm intruding on protected ground. I'm sure I will have offended many souls and I am sorry as that is not my intention but it is not nice to feel so excluded from a virtual situation and I felt I needed to give my opinion.
Please remember that this is a Q&A site, open to all users of all ages and a proper tone that encourages participation should be maintained at all times.