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first steps to divorce

Firstly, apologies if this sort of thing has been answered previously. I know it's a very typical situation. My brother and his wife have just split up. He is staying at my parents and she is in the...

kazza55

Why does my 13yr old ignore me? (Long post)

My daughter who is 13 is being quite obnoxious lately and I am finding it very upsetting. For example in the mornings before school I always say good morning to her and ask her if she would like me to...

clairadoola

moving back to england

3 years ago imoved to spain but one by one my children have gone back,i miss them terribly and want to go back but i have nowhere to live,i was on social security before will i be able to get it again...

chrisandrew

trust deed in scotland

Thankyou to those who responded to my last question, the information was very useful. However I have discovered that since I live in Scotland the process involves a trust deed which is slightly...

parkers

How do you introduce new foods?

I am at my wits end.. My partners 7 years old daughter eats the following - chocolate covered cereal, toast with Jam or Chocolate spread, sandwiches containing Jam or chocolate spread, M&S...

o8sp

what do working parents do with their kids during school hols?

my eldest daughter starts school next week and my husband and i don't get enough holiday to cover all the school holidays. we don't have family that can help and it seems that it is a struggle to get...

Christiane18

Life after bankruptcy

Hi there, I am just wondering whether someone could let me know who are the banks that deal with personal bankruptcy. I understand that you are not allowed a cheque book, but a visa electron? I have...

Madison68

Kids watching Little Britain

Am I right to stop my 12 year old watching Little Britain? She thinks I'm being mean, and no doubt has watched a few episodes at friends' houses. I love the show myself, but just think that some of...

BIRDAGE

Fathers Rights

My boyfriend and I recently split up after having some complications with his ex girlfriend. She is expecting his child, and has told him as long as he is seeing someone else he won't see the baby or...

gingerflaps

legal notice for shift changes

hi, ive just recently found out by a freind that my work place is changing the shift rotas from 8hrs to 12 hrs. I havnt been at work for 6 weeks due to an accident at work. My freind at work says that...

buddha01

How can I save some money on my loan.

Hello Basicly I have a loan for some 13k from Natwest, I believe the repayment period is 4 years, Im into it by three or four months, I presently pay ?370 a month. Here are my details does any one...

Bob A Job

Reading Fibifooz's question below.. Do you think that...?

... anyone who cannot find a job, and who has been on 'Job Seekers Allowance' for 8 weeks should be forced to work for the service of the public part time i.e. - street cleaning, public...

goldheart

bankruptcy

Ive been trying Citizens Advice Bureau, National Debtline other various links from websites and cannot get through - they're continually engaged and resources do not let you leave a message. however I...

Angel41

12 year old on a train

My ex has recently moved about 100 miles away. We have a 12 year old son and he thinks that he should travel up on the train to see him. He says that to come and collect him in the car (every other...

chrisandbex

has my future career just been ruined?

hello i am christy and am 12 ! i started horse riding 2 years ago and have been bragging for a horse ever since ( some of you may have seen my post on animals and nature about this ) .and my only...

clulou

blacklisted from council tax?

My council tax arrears has been sent to sheriff officer, debt collecting agency in Scotland. I am currently agreeing a payment plan, but will this show up on my credit rating?

thikasabrik

Compensation from the CSA

I've been dealing with the Child Support Agency since November and it's been a catalogue of blunders on their part. They now tell me that their computer system has "lost" my file.Someone told me that...

H.Wilkinson

child support

My husband has two teenage children from his first marriage. We are expecting our first baby in eight weeks. For the last six and a half years we have paid his ex wife a considerable amount of child...

catosullivan

careers in immagration

how do i found out about working for immagration

padders

Who should do the travelling?

My ex-wife has taken my daughter to live in another part of the country, which is a 4 hour drive away? I am trying to sort things out amicably over access visits however, my ex-wife says that I...

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