something he can use and keep at work A mousemat isn't a bad idea but with a photo of a place that means something to you... or some edible treats but I've been there a long time ago and while I appreciate the idea that a timeshare man feels better than nothing sometimes it may be stopping you moving on and finding someone who doesn't have to be a secret.. not that you are bad...maybe that you should let yourself know you deserve better...
Hope you don't have this dilemma next Christmas