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[merciasounds]

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Well see now the thing is, she's phoned me 4 times since sunday - I've been able to screen her calls as my land line phone shows caller ID - she drains me at the best of times, but at the moment I'm really not well enough to cope with her - she was crying the last time she phoned, something about her latest conquest leaving her with thirty thousand pounds worth of debt. I could see it coming a mile off but bit my tongue because i knew she wouldn't listen. Am I being mean not answerig her call - she wants to come a stay for a few days and 'lick her wounds' -what shall i do - tell her i'm ill or just continue to screen till Wednesday when I really will be away

[cazzz1975]

I would take away micks fish oil

[DTCwordfan]

essentially what I said at 10-27 trigs......

[sara3]

joeluke made a friend. that's nice :o)

[craft1948]

Thanks triggs............yogi still has the teeth.

[anneasquith]

re the original op, mercia, difficult decision for you, " sleep on it "

[Dee Sa]

mercia- this is what I would do - I would answer her calls as they are going to continue but I would be firm and say if you do come then I m going to tell you a few home truths that you might not like if she still wants to come then sit her down and tell her, her fortune, no holds back tell her all you have put down here wrong choices, booze etc and get it all off your chest, say you think it will happen again if she continues the way she is, easy target for gigolos & con men, say as a friend you are duty bound to speak the truth, keep her one night and send her on her way, she may not want to talk to you again but it will be better than you you just agreeing with her and holding her
hand. Your not me and its easy for me to say all this from the sidelines so I wish you luck whatever you decide to do. I bet she wasnt so friendly when she had "her man" in tow ?