Right: before I start work...

[Bbbananas]

Yes I'm still here - down but not out. I haven't slept very well since last Wednesday - those of you regulars on here will know why. I have had a lot of time to ponder on what happened & the possibly reasons why.

To the person out there who did it: I bear you no malice. Malice & bitterness are not my style. If your reasons were defence of the NHS rather than anything personal towards me, then I can almost understand what must have compelled you to do it. Public duty or something like that?(!)

However what has been most upsetting is that, having gone to the trouble to track down my place of work, why could you not have contacted me personally in the first instance? Warned me of your immense displeasure? Warned me that if I continued that you would feel bound to report me? Could you not have wrote or rang me personally? I would have listened - it would have put the wind up me enough for me to change things. Make me see how my postings looked to the outside world & taxpayers..... It is the manner in which you did it that is the worst aspect, for me.

You have won in one respect in that I will not be posting on here during work hours. But after the tremendous support & 'lurve' that has come my way on here since last week, has made me realise I will continue to be a contributor, and the way in which I am valued has gladdened my heart.

All I will say is that the Malicious Communications Act makes very interesting reading. Leave me alone now and I will leave the matter alone also. Life is too short for malice, bitterness and regret.

[ttfn]

Are you sure about that, red? ;o)

[boxtops]

I think we should let it drop now. At the risk of being repetitive, Ed and Salla have been working on this, and salla is rising above. Leave it, folks.

[ttfn]

c.h. I don't think salla posted this thread for the purpose of further discussion that this is now taking. Just a question of netiquette, you understand.

[cazzz1975]

lets drop it now conehead, the ed has said a gazillion times that we have to drop it because its being dealt with

[LoftyLottie]

Nice to see you Salla. I wasn't around yesterday. Hopefully you will pop in often when you can. x

[murraymints]

Salla.... don't worry most of us lurrrrrrve you...