scared of relationship..

[hellymyname]

basically when I begin to like a guy I tend to get very attached and I find myself constantly thinking about them and analysing every little thing and feeling hurt and rejected when I see them with or talking to or whatever with other girls. so then I panic and push them away even if they like me back or totally denying my feelings for them which obviously means nothing ever happens because I can never ever admit I like someone so then all my friends tell me I need to stop leading them on and eventually I just end up purposefully pushing them away until our relationship is totally gone. i've never had a boyfriend and I need to stop ruining everything all the time but I'm so scared of admitting I like someone because my mum has been divorced twice and is constantly breaking up and finding new boyfriends. currently I like someone however I've totally denied it and made a fuss about how I definitely don't, how can I stop myself from screwing it up again!

[tillyh345]

and breathe.

[woofgang]

there is a whole big wide world outside of boys, why don't you give yourself a break and go enjoy it...you aren't very old, there is loads of time yet

[boxtops]

How old are you, helly?

[4getmenot]

I was like that, I went for guys that didnt want me, basically because I hurt someone really bad years and years ago. after that I didnt think I deserved anyone, was treated like cr@p for years but still went after him whilst a kind caring bloke was chasing me, then after a while I though enough was enough and got rid of the git and went on a date with the one that wanted me. At first it was strange, I didnt like him keep cuddling me as I wasnt used to being loved but 4 years on we are still together and very much inlove. Just go for it!

[hellymyname]

19.

[woofgang]

how odd, in october, you were 16
http://www.theanswerb...s/Question950489.html

[DTCwordfan]

I was taught to never ask a woman her age and that they were never older than 21.

Some bl..dy old 21 year olds out there......

[NazNomad]

I smell burning ...

[woofgang]

mmmm check out the other questions

[JonnyBoy12]

A diplomat is a gentleman who always remembers her birthday, but never her age. I thought that you were 16 as well.

[factor-fiction]

Yes in the other posts the poster was 15/16 and just about to choose A levels, but I guess she said 19 here rather than 16 so we don't preach to her about being too young. Or maybe she shares the username with a sister/cousin.

[maggie21]

Be honest with the guy. tell him what you have told us. You can do a lot to help yourself . If you sort your worries into things that you can alter, and things that you can't, you might stop these pointless thoughts from upsetting you.

[woofgang]

judging from the other questions, it looks like a whole CLASS of teens sharing the username