I started at Toastmasters because I don't have much confidence when in a group of more than 4 people - specially if I don't know them, ie at a party. Toastmasters is about lots of things - speaking in public, leadership and listening skills. Yes it is nervewracking but I did my ten speeches in front of people, I took part in a speech competition and I really do think it has helped with confidence - and I have to say that it is a great night out! Humourous, interesting and you will always learn something. See if there are any clubs in your area and go to a meeting and see what goes on. As Henry Ford said, if you think you can do something, you are right, and if you think you can't do something, you are right. !! Go on! Good Luck