I nearly died over the weekend...

[dizmouk2009]

Why are the people who are supposedly there for you never there for you when you need them the most? Is it just me?

[MOUCHA]

Cheers cherry. I ought to be off too now. Well done for your efforts all round cherry. Hope diz gets on ok tomorrow. Sweet dreams

[cherrychapstick]

night moucha and thank you xx

[looobylooo]

diz, i hope you get on ok tomorrow with the doc, take care.. x

[cherrychapstick]

will let him know looby thank you x

[helpmepls]

Cherry-believe me I know an awful lot about depression. I will not be TOLD by anyone what I can & cant say. I too am allowed to answer this question. I believd I offered something helpful to diz, something to think about. We all speak differently, have different opinions etc..... This website was designed for input from different people-meaning different answers. There is no right or wrong answer. Again I stress I have not been nasty-its not like Iv come on here Chanting kill yaself is it??? I offered what I believe to be a positive answer. Food for thought. Perhaps that may help diz. Who the hell are you to say?

[helpmepls]

Looby-Thank you for your kind words.xx

[helpmepls]

Anyway diz-this is your thread not cherrys. I'm off to bed now but I will keep you in my prayers. I hope it goes ok tommorrow. Your helping yourself which is good. I hope that, however misunderstood my words were you will at least think of them at some stage & think "I am glad those words were said to me....they are so true & life is mine"!!! Much Love.x

[wolf63]

helpmepls - I am sorry to hear about your illness. As my late other said "nobody said that life would be fair". Too true.

Best wishes with the doctor diz and if you really feel the need for help try NHS24. I phoned them a couple of Christmases ago when I was freaking out and the doctor took the time to talk to me and it really helped.

[helpmepls]

Thank you wolf63.xxx Your late other was most defiantly right. Bless them, & youxx

[cherbear0326]

It may be because they are selfish. It is not just you I have dealt with people like this too.

[cherrychapstick]

so if i had came on to your thread and the 1st comment i said was


at seeker you wouldn't have felt worse all he wanted was someone to talk to was that so hard for you to do if when you came on to the thread you didnt like what you read you should have left ,you didnt help ,i have also had depression you can't snap out of it ,not that simple and you should know that ,you have upset my friend more than was necessary,

well when your dying & suffering (real suffering) & have months to live comments like yours are hard to read

this seems to be all you wrote before saying i hoped my comments would have helped


read this http://www.depression.com/

and then tell someone with depression to snap out of it x

[cherrychapstick]

wolf thank you from diz ,he will try and come on tomorrow once he knows what is happening x

[helpmepls]

You really are quite aggressive Cherry
Like I said, we are all different and deal with things differently. I, whether you like it or not, beleive I made a valid point to diz, that may give him food for thought??.

READ my comments properly & then you wont make a fool of yourself.

The way you speak to a dying mother is quite remarkable really.

I will not be reading articles about depression as I know plenty already.

To me, and many terminal illness is slightly more serious than depression sweetie, That is not saying depression is not serious-of course it is, people die because of it, however perhaps suicidal people thinking "what if" i was actually dying right now of a terminal illness-would I actually want to die??? FOOD FOR THOUGHT!!!!!!

Remember there's no right or wrong cherry. Its just people giving their answers-no race to be no 1.

In the yrs, months, or days that you have left on this earth-I hope you will remember your aggressivness towards Me in your answers-Your need to continue & attempt to pick a fight over SOMEONE elses question. Diz's Hero???

I merely made a point & I believe he WILL think back to my comment infact I know he wil...one day!

Anyway good luck in your MISSION I'll let you have the last word-which I Know is the control you need. x

[helpmepls]

Tullia2 Thank you so much for those words.x
I try not to show my pain as its horrible for my kids to see but sometimes its hard.

Really, Thank you for your prayers-it is warming.

Much love.xx
P.s-Pray for my son & daughter too.xxxx

[cherrychapstick]

goodnight , i am sorry if i came across agressive i read all your posts and diz was hurt by them he had to go off ,i will let him know that you are thinking of him tomorrow

night and god bless ,will be thinking of you and your children xx take care xx