FAO --bigmamma, how are

[brenda]

things at the moment. Haven't been around for a few days had a few probs .As you know I am a 24/7 carer for a man who overtime has been my lover, my husband and now my friend.He has dementia , with which most times I can cope, but has now developed serious behaviour probs which are agressive and at times verbally violent. I need to begin to work out the future for him which is difficult for me to remain objective, so that is why I have not been around.

Putting all that aside , what have you been up to.? Here the weather has been superb , but at night a tad chilly.Is it the same in your neck of the woods.?Are you able to get out with your carers from time to time ? I do hope so .Will have to love and leave you ,the intercom has just gone , got to go cos we are neighbours as well!!!! Take care , speak later. Brenda.x

[cazzz1975]

I hope things improve brenda, it takes a lot of strength to deal with what you are going through x

[sara3]

I agree with cazzz, that's very sad. you have a lot to deal with and I hope you have some support x

[Bobbisox]

Hi Brenda, as you know I am one of your brethren Geordies, I take my hat off to you and the task you are undertaking with such selflessness
Bobbi

[brenda]

Thanks people -- great to know that I'm not alone and that I have some lovely caring cyber buddies.love to you Brenda.x

[ruthann58]

its a long hard sad journey you are making brenda i wish you well ,i am afraid there is no happy outcome to this the only thing is when we were faced with this with my mother in law she did not realise she was the one who had the problem ,she quite often used to tell me i was soft in the head and didnt know what i was talking about xxx

[brenda]

ruthann58-- you are so very right.You must have had such a hard time .My thoughts areith you .Sincerely Brenda..