Ice, I accept everything you are saying! But what more can I do? I have openly apologies to Legs and he still abuses me - - - - which, may I point out, he started, long before I got into - what I thought was - 'Banter Back'! I do not know of his previous, as he should now be aware off.
What I can say, is when HE is on site and 'dishing it out to me', NOBODY comes to back me up - wrong term really, but you know what I am saying here? I'm either ignored or certain people simply agree with him, the same people who have had decent conversations with me previous.
& I am not going to say anything different, but there are comments he makes to you all that I personnelly find offensive. I also accept the fact that, if you are happy with them, then that is your choice, & I do not, nor ever have, pulled the rug from under his feet when he makes such remarks. However, it does leave one to think, 'How hippocratical is that?'
You, of all people, are aware, how sympathetic I am to others plights, I am a caring person. So maybe, you can get that through to your friend and we will not have this aul crap on here.
Ice, I don't need to be part of a group or gang or sect or whatever, I'm just me!!
I can truthfully say that he has called me some awful names long before I 'Took it on board'! to give him a taste of his own! But I have to step back and look in - I ask myself is he fair minded also? I find myself answering - 'NO' - what more can I do?